Most camps are split between it being wrong to contact her workplace and it being fine
You're definitely reading things wrong OP. People are telling you that the problem was taking her away from work when you're having money issues and she's having trouble keeping up with her workload.
Please read the reply I wrote to this poster. Just because you have different libido levels does not mean there is something wrong with your fiancee. You can be mismatched without making one of you 'wrong'.
Hoping i could bump this by commenting, genuinely interested in peoples answers
Most camps are split between it being wrong to contact her workplace and it being fine
You're definitely reading things wrong OP. People are telling you that the problem was taking her away from work when you're having money issues and she's having trouble keeping up with her workload.
Please read the reply I wrote to this poster. Just because you have different libido levels does not mean there is something wrong with your fiancee. You can be mismatched without making one of you 'wrong'.
Have empathy that someone treated your dad horribly & he cannot help what he is.
Let him have his dignity.
You will be okay without him. Remember that, sweetie You don't need to accept anything. Move on
A man that blocks you from your money or career is boy the one. Take the job.