Maybe talk to your parents. Do you have nobody in your life that you can turn for help, not one single adult that cares about you? Talk to them. Preferably your parents because they should have known this situation.
Update: There was drama in the friend group, one girl in the group had been weaving many many webs and they crossed. Most of the friends group was there, we talked about everything, showed receipts, and deep dived into full honesty for over 2 hours, concluding with the agreement we had been bamboozled. My boyfriend was asleep when we decided it was best to just cut the burning bridge with her, and she wanted revenge.
This is where she sent him strategically cropped messages and literal lies early in the morning. He took the lies as full truth and broke up with me and blocked me on everything.
I know this from a 3rd party involved in this whole disaster because this 3rd party has spoken to us all with all of our consent of sharing any messages she may need to verify the actual truth of anything.
I apparently will be unblocked by my ex. Apparently, we will talk. But to be so untrusted and discredited that I didn't even deserve a chance to tell the whole and actual truth.
There is an obvious road block in our fundamental morals and who we are as people. Not to mention, I'm 30, I'm not doing this, no communication, break up on and off again game. It was so easy for him to just delete me from his life over a lie neither of us own. It will be easy for him to do it again.
I'm angry, I'm sad, I'm hurt, I'm heartbroken, and confused. Everything about this situation from A to Z just sucks.
and I havenโt told anyone about it
Maybe talk to your parents. Do you have nobody in your life that you can turn for help, not one single adult that cares about you? Talk to them. Preferably your parents because they should have known this situation.
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Update: There was drama in the friend group, one girl in the group had been weaving many many webs and they crossed. Most of the friends group was there, we talked about everything, showed receipts, and deep dived into full honesty for over 2 hours, concluding with the agreement we had been bamboozled. My boyfriend was asleep when we decided it was best to just cut the burning bridge with her, and she wanted revenge.
This is where she sent him strategically cropped messages and literal lies early in the morning. He took the lies as full truth and broke up with me and blocked me on everything.
I know this from a 3rd party involved in this whole disaster because this 3rd party has spoken to us all with all of our consent of sharing any messages she may need to verify the actual truth of anything.
I apparently will be unblocked by my ex. Apparently, we will talk. But to be so untrusted and discredited that I didn't even deserve a chance to tell the whole and actual truth.
There is an obvious road block in our fundamental morals and who we are as people. Not to mention, I'm 30, I'm not doing this, no communication, break up on and off again game. It was so easy for him to just delete me from his life over a lie neither of us own. It will be easy for him to do it again.
I'm angry, I'm sad, I'm hurt, I'm heartbroken, and confused. Everything about this situation from A to Z just sucks.