This sounds like emotional manipulation/abuse, specifically gaslighting. Gaslighting is a tactic used by abusers to manipulate and control their victims by making them doubt their own perceptions, memories, and sanity. In this case, your SO is using their claimed “trigger” as a justification for their abusive behavior, blaming you for causing their emotional distress and then using that as an excuse to verbally abuse you. I suggest you gtfo while you still can. Get in contact with family and friends for support and help getting away from this person, you deserve better treatment than this.
The point is,I don't have any questions. I was told why they wanted to stay away from me(her husband's episodes trigger when he even sees my photos) and I know my mom chose her over me(he said this clearly on the last letter she left me after I was discharged) so I am surprised even with the request. My mother is known as being stubborn as a goat. She would refuse to see me even if she has to die.
This sounds like emotional manipulation/abuse, specifically gaslighting. Gaslighting is a tactic used by abusers to manipulate and control their victims by making them doubt their own perceptions, memories, and sanity. In this case, your SO is using their claimed “trigger” as a justification for their abusive behavior, blaming you for causing their emotional distress and then using that as an excuse to verbally abuse you. I suggest you gtfo while you still can. Get in contact with family and friends for support and help getting away from this person, you deserve better treatment than this.
Your fiancée has a pretty sweet life it sounds like lmao. But that’s at your expense dude, this sounds super weird. She worked once? It sounds like y’all don’t even talk about this. Have you ever had a conversation about this like have you asked her what her plan is? Do you have joint finances? I don’t know much but I definitely don’t think this is something you should count on “figuring itself out” in a marriage, unless you’re cool with this being the rest of your life
Everyone involved in the affairs are married. Two affairs * two people (and their associated marriages) each = four marriages.
OP + Wife = Marriage #1 Wife's affair partner + spouse = Marriage #2 Friend + spouse = Marriage #3 Friend's affair partner + spouse = Marriage #4
The point is,I don't have any questions. I was told why they wanted to stay away from me(her husband's episodes trigger when he even sees my photos) and I know my mom chose her over me(he said this clearly on the last letter she left me after I was discharged) so I am surprised even with the request. My mother is known as being stubborn as a goat. She would refuse to see me even if she has to die.
Rent. Is the money saved worth living in amongst all this stress and anxiety? No it's not.
good questions
Dude, you deserve someone who sees you as more than just an ATM.
Lmao I tried so naked not to use it but this is the absolute definition of gaslighting.