Last year November was our 3rd year. If I have to be honest, I am really scared to lose him, but I don't really want to just settle because I don't want to end up being alone.
We don't agree on politics and he has this bad habit of gambling (thru easy cash schemes like axie and this new game called Lele Gold). I don't know if I want to deal with that.
Let me preface this by saying I don't know anything about Snapchat, so I'm assuming the technical details of your post are correct.
I think you know the answer here.
She's immature. She's “bored” when you're at work (which isn't a negotiable thing). She's not sorry because she knows exactly why she did it and knows she'd do it again if she felt provoked. She feels trapped.
This is not a person you want to marry. You can't fix the trust because there's been no change. Talking about it doesn't change anything, and the trust between you is broken.
And when trust breaks, so does intimacy. We're isolated when our partners don't trust us, because we know we aren't really a team anymore.
This relationship has been a learning experience. But don't pretend to yourself that her immaturity is the stuff you could make a relationship out of: she's already proving it isn't.
this isnt about immaturity sadly, this is about a severe lack of respect for women. he (and his friends) see the women in those photos and videos as sex objects, not people. you deserve better.
Do you really want this to be the rest of your life?
It will be the rest of your life if you remain married to him.
If there was one roach you saw, there are hundreds swarming through the house while you sleep. Running across the kitchen counters. Under the bag of bread or potatoes, crawling across the cleaned dishes in the cabinets.
And where there are roaches, there are most likely mice or rats. Itβs only a matter of time before the rodent shit starts showing up.
Get a paternity test and get child support.
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Last year November was our 3rd year. If I have to be honest, I am really scared to lose him, but I don't really want to just settle because I don't want to end up being alone.
We don't agree on politics and he has this bad habit of gambling (thru easy cash schemes like axie and this new game called Lele Gold). I don't know if I want to deal with that.
Let me preface this by saying I don't know anything about Snapchat, so I'm assuming the technical details of your post are correct.
I think you know the answer here.
She's immature. She's “bored” when you're at work (which isn't a negotiable thing). She's not sorry because she knows exactly why she did it and knows she'd do it again if she felt provoked. She feels trapped.
This is not a person you want to marry. You can't fix the trust because there's been no change. Talking about it doesn't change anything, and the trust between you is broken.
And when trust breaks, so does intimacy. We're isolated when our partners don't trust us, because we know we aren't really a team anymore.
This relationship has been a learning experience. But don't pretend to yourself that her immaturity is the stuff you could make a relationship out of: she's already proving it isn't.
this isnt about immaturity sadly, this is about a severe lack of respect for women. he (and his friends) see the women in those photos and videos as sex objects, not people. you deserve better.
Do you really want this to be the rest of your life?
It will be the rest of your life if you remain married to him.
If there was one roach you saw, there are hundreds swarming through the house while you sleep. Running across the kitchen counters. Under the bag of bread or potatoes, crawling across the cleaned dishes in the cabinets.
And where there are roaches, there are most likely mice or rats. Itβs only a matter of time before the rodent shit starts showing up.