They can be changed, usually just not last minute. But OP wasn’t asking her to not go, his ultimatum was talk to me before you leave or we’re done.
You leave him. And you can ask to work it out but what he is really said is he wants to mess with other women. When a monogamous relationship gets to this point, it’s mostly over. You cannot make him not want other women. If you introduce them into the relationship to end up destroying yours, your relationship is over.
Indeed, and it absolutely affects your life expectancy. I mean, yeah, maybe you can get away with it when you're younger and not feel as affected. But all those years of extra strain on the body, leading to the issues you mentioned and more? That means you're gonna be lucky to make *past* 50 or 60, and if you do your quality of life is likely to be severely impacted.
There's several ways to handle this and for OP's bf to just say “this is how it is” is so disrespectful to her and their love. There's nothing beautiful about not taking into consideration your life partner at all into a huge issue like this.
If you read the rest of the post is very obvious it's not a typo
Uhmmm her sex life is not his business to deal with.
They can be changed, usually just not last minute. But OP wasn’t asking her to not go, his ultimatum was talk to me before you leave or we’re done.
You leave him. And you can ask to work it out but what he is really said is he wants to mess with other women. When a monogamous relationship gets to this point, it’s mostly over. You cannot make him not want other women. If you introduce them into the relationship to end up destroying yours, your relationship is over.
He finds her exciting because he’s addicted to drama and maybe was raised in chaos. It’s something for him to work on in therapy.
But he knows you’re the best person for him. That has to mean something.
People drink on the job too, drink every weekend, a few beers after work everyday…sooo she seems to be right in there for normal use lol
Indeed, and it absolutely affects your life expectancy. I mean, yeah, maybe you can get away with it when you're younger and not feel as affected. But all those years of extra strain on the body, leading to the issues you mentioned and more? That means you're gonna be lucky to make *past* 50 or 60, and if you do your quality of life is likely to be severely impacted.
“also beautiful” lmao. Talk about bad takes.
There's several ways to handle this and for OP's bf to just say “this is how it is” is so disrespectful to her and their love. There's nothing beautiful about not taking into consideration your life partner at all into a huge issue like this.