because you think these dudes have to be manipulated via flirtation to give away a hoodie. you basically imply they these guys couldn’t think for themselves and had no choice but to give her the hoodie, which is infantilizing them. because let’s say she did flirt with all of them for the hoodies…they could’ve said no. which leads to thinking she’s psycho because who flirts with more than 20 dudes without some type of sexual/romantic aspect for some hoodies
because we went NC after breaking up. I wasn't sure when I'd be able to return to the same city, so it didn't make sense to ask until then.
Seems kinda rude to throw away someone's stuff, so I figured she'd shove them into a box at the back of her closet. One of the things that I left was a gift from my friend, which she was aware of.
I did look her up a month ago to see how she's doing, and I found some pictures that her program took during two separate events. Lo and behold, she was wearing in both events, the shirts that I bought for her. So, if she hasn't thrown away the gifts, I think there's a chance she kept my stuff in the closet or something.
Not like she can kick him out. Cheating sucks but you can't force someone else to be homeless for it.
because you think these dudes have to be manipulated via flirtation to give away a hoodie. you basically imply they these guys couldn’t think for themselves and had no choice but to give her the hoodie, which is infantilizing them. because let’s say she did flirt with all of them for the hoodies…they could’ve said no. which leads to thinking she’s psycho because who flirts with more than 20 dudes without some type of sexual/romantic aspect for some hoodies
because we went NC after breaking up. I wasn't sure when I'd be able to return to the same city, so it didn't make sense to ask until then.
Seems kinda rude to throw away someone's stuff, so I figured she'd shove them into a box at the back of her closet. One of the things that I left was a gift from my friend, which she was aware of.
I did look her up a month ago to see how she's doing, and I found some pictures that her program took during two separate events. Lo and behold, she was wearing in both events, the shirts that I bought for her. So, if she hasn't thrown away the gifts, I think there's a chance she kept my stuff in the closet or something.