Fertility is “a healthy couple get pregnant over the course of a year”. If you don't that is a Fertility issue. I also gave an example of a woman I know who married late and had 3 children after 45. That doesn't change the fact that doctors call it a geriatric pregnancy.
Therapy is an excellent tool for everyone. Don’t destroy this guy. I think you are being harder on him than is necessary. He seems caring and loving, and open to being a better partner to OP. I definitely agree OP needs to take her time and make sure these issues get sorted out.
I would never want to be with someone like that. You say he does it to you, himself, and everyone around him. If you were to want to have children, who’s to say he wouldn’t do it to them? He sounds like he needs to work on himself even though his therapist gave him the OK.
Judging from this post and a bunch of your comments, this doesn't sound like it was “out of nowhere” at all. From the age gap, to her feeling like she's mothering you, to her having issues with you that you say you didn't change, and MORE, you got like a million and one signs man. Date someone your own age and think deeply about the feedback she's given you.
Tell him you'll get the belly ring when he gets a Prince Albert.
Fertility is “a healthy couple get pregnant over the course of a year”. If you don't that is a Fertility issue. I also gave an example of a woman I know who married late and had 3 children after 45. That doesn't change the fact that doctors call it a geriatric pregnancy.
Therapy is an excellent tool for everyone. Don’t destroy this guy. I think you are being harder on him than is necessary. He seems caring and loving, and open to being a better partner to OP. I definitely agree OP needs to take her time and make sure these issues get sorted out.
I would never want to be with someone like that. You say he does it to you, himself, and everyone around him. If you were to want to have children, who’s to say he wouldn’t do it to them? He sounds like he needs to work on himself even though his therapist gave him the OK.
Judging from this post and a bunch of your comments, this doesn't sound like it was “out of nowhere” at all. From the age gap, to her feeling like she's mothering you, to her having issues with you that you say you didn't change, and MORE, you got like a million and one signs man. Date someone your own age and think deeply about the feedback she's given you.
I had a boyfriend who did this with a female “friend” – turned out they were fucking the entire time. Not worth the headache, girl. Trust me.