No, he canβt change. But you can. You can spend your time with people who treat you like a regular person. There are so many others out there who will be normal.
Ideally, your contribution added to what he currently pays would take care of the new mortgage amount. So,why would be need to pull out crypto?
Also, this is a terrible time to buy unless you're a cash buyer. Interest rates are quite high and, thus, monthly mortgage payments are quite high. If so we're him I'd sit tight on that house for at least 3-5 years.
Did you own your place that you had before you moved in with him? If not, you can't accept his offer to love into his place and then pressure him to sell it. That's selfish and unfair. You knew what his place offered when you accepted and you knew the limitations of it, too.
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No, he canβt change. But you can. You can spend your time with people who treat you like a regular person. There are so many others out there who will be normal.
Ideally, your contribution added to what he currently pays would take care of the new mortgage amount. So,why would be need to pull out crypto?
Also, this is a terrible time to buy unless you're a cash buyer. Interest rates are quite high and, thus, monthly mortgage payments are quite high. If so we're him I'd sit tight on that house for at least 3-5 years.
Did you own your place that you had before you moved in with him? If not, you can't accept his offer to love into his place and then pressure him to sell it. That's selfish and unfair. You knew what his place offered when you accepted and you knew the limitations of it, too.