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Thank you so much! This is extremely helpful! I'm not sure why my brain didn't think of involving a therapist but thank you so much for reminding me of that. I have several lists that I've written down with questions I have, boundaries I want to set, and things in the past I need acknowledged and genuine apologies for.
I didn't try to contact him as Olivia on Monday. I contacted him as Olivia weeks before that. But either way it doesn't matter. You're right. I need help and to leave him alone. Thanks for the advice.
All the people talking about this being a nightmare to them are upsetting. I'm so sorry, that's a bit sad to read in this situation.
People change their minds, and that's an okay thing to do. If you've decided you want something else out of life, then that's fine, and you shouldn't be shut down the way these commentors are with that comment. And frankly, it's part of healing, to realise that your view based in fear, maybe can be challenged once the fear has subsided. For all you know, she feels the same, or is coming to it too.
The only thing you can do here is be honest. And no, if she says her mind hasn't changed, I don't think that to be a “good partner” as another commentor claims, you have to “accept it”. You can ask if the conversation can be open in other ways, and then decide if you want it enough to chase it with someone else or not, and keep discussing it. You can discuss things without pushing, or railroading her view, and without just accepting that your view needs to be let go, that's really important to note.
Anyway, look. I recommend you ask her how it's going with the kid, ask her if it's helping her view of children and family at all, then be honest that it's changed your view quite a lot. You don't need to leap into “I want kids” to start this chat, cause I know that's the scary part, but you can easily open the door with asking if it's helping her healing the way it has yours. Then go from there.
If you two love eachother, this conversation, even if you don't align, will be respectful and kind, and you will come to some sort of agreement (even if it is indeed to walk away from eachother, or leave the door open to discuss more in the future, or anything in between).
Thank you so much! This is extremely helpful! I'm not sure why my brain didn't think of involving a therapist but thank you so much for reminding me of that. I have several lists that I've written down with questions I have, boundaries I want to set, and things in the past I need acknowledged and genuine apologies for.
I didn't try to contact him as Olivia on Monday. I contacted him as Olivia weeks before that. But either way it doesn't matter. You're right. I need help and to leave him alone. Thanks for the advice.
All the people talking about this being a nightmare to them are upsetting. I'm so sorry, that's a bit sad to read in this situation.
People change their minds, and that's an okay thing to do. If you've decided you want something else out of life, then that's fine, and you shouldn't be shut down the way these commentors are with that comment. And frankly, it's part of healing, to realise that your view based in fear, maybe can be challenged once the fear has subsided. For all you know, she feels the same, or is coming to it too.
The only thing you can do here is be honest. And no, if she says her mind hasn't changed, I don't think that to be a “good partner” as another commentor claims, you have to “accept it”. You can ask if the conversation can be open in other ways, and then decide if you want it enough to chase it with someone else or not, and keep discussing it. You can discuss things without pushing, or railroading her view, and without just accepting that your view needs to be let go, that's really important to note.
Anyway, look. I recommend you ask her how it's going with the kid, ask her if it's helping her view of children and family at all, then be honest that it's changed your view quite a lot. You don't need to leap into “I want kids” to start this chat, cause I know that's the scary part, but you can easily open the door with asking if it's helping her healing the way it has yours. Then go from there.
If you two love eachother, this conversation, even if you don't align, will be respectful and kind, and you will come to some sort of agreement (even if it is indeed to walk away from eachother, or leave the door open to discuss more in the future, or anything in between).