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He’s not over her. You will always come second. You did the right thing. You are just hurt and in pain right now, which is understandable. But you shouldn’t second guess yourself and your boundaries. And if you cave on this it would just say that you’re willing to cave on other boundaries he may cross. He disrespected you and it’s extremely weird what he’s doing with his ex. What’s worse is he lied to you about it, and wasn’t going to tell you. You had to find out on your own, by surprise, with pictures of him with her he took literally the day before!! Awful. You are right, he broke your trust and I don’t see how he could fix it, especially since he’s flat out told you he has no intentions on stopping this. Please have some respect for yourself. There are other people out there that won’t keep you in the dark, keep you in second place because they aren’t over their ex, that you’ll get along with fine and that respects you and your boundaries. It hurts now but you made the right decision.
Yes, your life is upside down. You’re in for some very, very tough days, weeks, months, and years ahead, OP. Now is the time to seek professional help- legal, physical health, and mental health professional help, both for yourself and your sister. I say for your sister, but that’s only if you have it in you to help her right now (and I understand it may be too much to help her as well as yourself at the moment, and that’s okay) but please consider that while your sister bears some responsibility for her alcoholism, the reality is she didn’t do this to you, your husband did.
Your husband, who became a legal adult before you were even born, destroyed your marriage, whatever that looked like. He took advantage of your sister, who is an alcoholic, and had sex with her when she was absolutely, 100% incapable (legally, practically, ethically) to give her consent. Consent is required for sex to occur. If there isn’t consent, it’s rape. I know it will be hot to hear, because you love your husband, but he raped your sister. In your home. While you were present. He did that. Not her, him.
I’m worried, OP, that you are now in active danger. The type of person who would do something like this is very, very dangerous because every act he’s done shows he does not respect you. Just so you know, I’m factoring everything you mentioned in your post into the “something like this” description, and by that I mean a) he married someone who was in diapers and didn’t know how to use a toilet while he was having his first drink, dating, graduating (or not) high school, etc., while you were learning how to talk; b) he had an “affair” in his marital home, while his spouse was there, with someone in her immediate family; and c) this one is the most important, he raped someone. I put affair in quotes because in this particular instance, regardless of whether this is the only time he has had such an interaction with your sister or not, this time it was rape.
You don’t have to be the one to help your sister through her alcoholism. I understand if, in this moment, you’re not able to, and that’s okay. But what you do need to do, and do it quickly, is take steps now to ensure you and your sister are safe.
You witnessed your husband commit a violent crime that ought to land him in jail. He is about to do everything in his power to make sure you don’t see the situation that way. He will turn on you, if you support her. He will blame ALL of it on your sister, if he hasn’t already. It sounds like you’re blaming your sister when you ask how she could do this to you… where is the blame for your husband, the one who raped your nearly unconscious sister in your house!! The one who was old enough to understand consent a decade before you were conceived? He is not a good man. This is going to be bad, I won’t sugar coat it. This is why you need professionals, ASAP.
Start with your physical safety. If he’s out of the house still, the next step is gathering your documents. If not then gather them discreetly, if it’s safe, and find somewhere you can stay. If you’re able, find somewhere you can leave your sister where she will be safe and you don’t have to deal with her while you’re going through this. I would have suggested your sister get a tox report done at a hospital, but it’s been a month now.
I understand if you’re not ready to view what happened as rape, because up until a bunch of people on Reddit told you so, you didn’t view it that way. But even if you’re not there yet, even if you never get there, your marriage is over. It will not and should not survive this. Speak to a lawyer. If you can’t afford one, speak to domestic abuse services in your area. It’s time to tell your friends who you trust what has happened, even though it’s going to be hard.
I’m so sorry this has happened to you. Please be safe, OP. I am genuinely worried for you.
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The Most you should do is show her that you’ve sold your shares.