Hahaha ofc I don't expect anyone to work as much as I am now (holy- I wish I didn't work this much), but I appreciate some insight on if my expectations are reasonable 🙂
I haven't considered the independence part, so that's something I will have to think about. Thank you for your reply!
Hi, thank you for your explanation. I think we both suffer from some kind of depression (not diagnosed so don't wanna say bs). But it's true he's prob looking for dopamine somewhere. And it's doing the opposite to me. I will talk to him about this specifically. I know it's very crucial for him to understand why I cannot be horny whenever but I sometimes feel like I'm not normal because of that. I'm also putting a lot of pressure to myself to be “good enough” and it doesn't help. Thanks a lot, it helps
^^^^Rational, mature way of handling the situation.
Hahaha ofc I don't expect anyone to work as much as I am now (holy- I wish I didn't work this much), but I appreciate some insight on if my expectations are reasonable 🙂
I haven't considered the independence part, so that's something I will have to think about. Thank you for your reply!
Hi, thank you for your explanation. I think we both suffer from some kind of depression (not diagnosed so don't wanna say bs). But it's true he's prob looking for dopamine somewhere. And it's doing the opposite to me. I will talk to him about this specifically. I know it's very crucial for him to understand why I cannot be horny whenever but I sometimes feel like I'm not normal because of that. I'm also putting a lot of pressure to myself to be “good enough” and it doesn't help. Thanks a lot, it helps