So him interrupting while you are trying to talk could be helped with doing something like having an item that the person whose turn to talk holds and the other has to listen. He cannot talk until he has it.
However, the whole one upping and trying to win thing is odd. Does he had a reason WHY he does this? I have known some people who had limited social experience in my life that do this. They said that they felt that was their way to try and contribute and communicate that you will be okay because it could be worse. Him continuing to do that even though you have communicated how it makes you feel really tells you what you need to know. It tells you that he values on upping you more than actually listening to you and giving you support.
Individual therapy for him and couples therapy could be an option, but given your debt already, do not know how feasible that is. I guess you have to decide if this is what you want in your future since you have tried communicating and talking to him about it but he does not listen. It sounds like when he does do this and you point it out, instead of him realizing he is doing it and trying to correct it, he gets angry. That is not good and does not give really any confidence or indication he wants to change.
Orrrr “well Tom hanks made this sign ?? so he MUST be a pedo and support being a pedo AND steal their adrenocrome”. You can’t say he’s defending something when there’s nothing to defend bc all the claims are basis.
In a real relationship, your boyfriend would be more interested in booking a holiday with you, rather than all those girls etc. If he loves you he wouldn’t want to go without you. I know you’re young, but don’t tolerate this nonsense.
Her and her family should be focusing on her mental health and getting better on her own. The stability of her mental health cannot be tied to being in a relationship with you.
So him interrupting while you are trying to talk could be helped with doing something like having an item that the person whose turn to talk holds and the other has to listen. He cannot talk until he has it.
However, the whole one upping and trying to win thing is odd. Does he had a reason WHY he does this? I have known some people who had limited social experience in my life that do this. They said that they felt that was their way to try and contribute and communicate that you will be okay because it could be worse. Him continuing to do that even though you have communicated how it makes you feel really tells you what you need to know. It tells you that he values on upping you more than actually listening to you and giving you support.
Individual therapy for him and couples therapy could be an option, but given your debt already, do not know how feasible that is. I guess you have to decide if this is what you want in your future since you have tried communicating and talking to him about it but he does not listen. It sounds like when he does do this and you point it out, instead of him realizing he is doing it and trying to correct it, he gets angry. That is not good and does not give really any confidence or indication he wants to change.
Orrrr “well Tom hanks made this sign ?? so he MUST be a pedo and support being a pedo AND steal their adrenocrome”. You can’t say he’s defending something when there’s nothing to defend bc all the claims are basis.
Oh, the early 20s midlife crisis…
Thankyou!
In a real relationship, your boyfriend would be more interested in booking a holiday with you, rather than all those girls etc. If he loves you he wouldn’t want to go without you. I know you’re young, but don’t tolerate this nonsense.
She is keeping him in her pocket until you screw up in her eyes. As soon as you said he wanted her but she friendzoned him thatvwas self evident.
Seriously? Are you just a troll u/One-Incident4858 ?
This is such shit advice.
If you have the time, if you can get it off from work, DO IT.
Employers CAN and DO deny vacation requests when coverage isn't possible. If they've approved it, you're golden.
Her and her family should be focusing on her mental health and getting better on her own. The stability of her mental health cannot be tied to being in a relationship with you.