The best way to treat this, maybe its immature though. Is to pretend like it doesn't bother you. Its not your wife's fault.
This guy is a total dick, and it sounds like you wouldn't like him even if he didn't do this.
And it seems like you can't just never see him again, because its a wife's friend husband.
So just never invite him anywhere, if he's there already, be polite but not friendly, focus on your real friends, doing everything you can to make them feel chill. Never look this guy in the eye again, just say hello in passing, and ignore him the rest of the time, eventually he will not feel welcome around you and wont be around as much,
You don't owe him shit, don't give him shit.
The worst thing one adult can do to another is remove all friendship, when he arrives and talks to you just say “hay man” and walk off.
When another friend arrives “MIKE its so good to see you do you want a beer I bought some I know you just have to try, follow me to the fridge, Ill give you a backrub…”
This guy will get the hint.
He will either disappear on his own, or change. At that point you have the right to forgive him or not.
Whatever you do though, stop talking about this, stop mentioning it to your wife, and other friends, stop thinking about it if you can, just focus on the real people in your life and how much you love them,
Some random guy shouldn't be able to get between you and your wife. Don't let him.
nah that’s hella fucked up. bro wanted your gf all along , but was trying to make himself seem like a good friend. go NC with both of them and focus on yourself, you deserve so much better
I remember when my dad chose his new family over his existing kids – that hurt so bad. I promise, your daughter will remember your choices.
The best way to treat this, maybe its immature though. Is to pretend like it doesn't bother you. Its not your wife's fault.
This guy is a total dick, and it sounds like you wouldn't like him even if he didn't do this.
And it seems like you can't just never see him again, because its a wife's friend husband.
So just never invite him anywhere, if he's there already, be polite but not friendly, focus on your real friends, doing everything you can to make them feel chill. Never look this guy in the eye again, just say hello in passing, and ignore him the rest of the time, eventually he will not feel welcome around you and wont be around as much,
You don't owe him shit, don't give him shit.
The worst thing one adult can do to another is remove all friendship, when he arrives and talks to you just say “hay man” and walk off.
When another friend arrives “MIKE its so good to see you do you want a beer I bought some I know you just have to try, follow me to the fridge, Ill give you a backrub…”
This guy will get the hint.
He will either disappear on his own, or change. At that point you have the right to forgive him or not.
Whatever you do though, stop talking about this, stop mentioning it to your wife, and other friends, stop thinking about it if you can, just focus on the real people in your life and how much you love them,
Some random guy shouldn't be able to get between you and your wife. Don't let him.
nah that’s hella fucked up. bro wanted your gf all along , but was trying to make himself seem like a good friend. go NC with both of them and focus on yourself, you deserve so much better