You sound like you’re trying to replace her mom. She’s 8 years old and doesn’t have any concept on the dynamics going into this. Sounds like you’re way overstepping
Sorry this happened to you. Her behavior was unacceptable. Please get tested. This was a violation of trust. I don’t think I’d be able to be intimate with a person who would do this.
Recognize that the only one of them who deserves your anger is your husband. He made vows to you; they did not. They owe you nothing but common courtesy, and the fact that they didn't afford you that was something that was your husband's responsibility to handle. They could've asked him all day long to go out with them, but if he'd said no, that would've been the end of it. HE chose to put you and your mother at risk.
Deal with your husband problem and stop blaming his friends.
They gave each other passes, ffs. Maybe they decided to share the free pass experiences, maybe not. Reddit is so f/n judgmental.
You sound like you’re trying to replace her mom. She’s 8 years old and doesn’t have any concept on the dynamics going into this. Sounds like you’re way overstepping
Sorry this happened to you. Her behavior was unacceptable. Please get tested. This was a violation of trust. I don’t think I’d be able to be intimate with a person who would do this.
Inwas going to say don't have these man's children. Iit looks like he saw himself out.
Hahaha, even if you’re being facetious, I totally will let you know and even send an invite to the wedding ? Again, thank you so much!
Recognize that the only one of them who deserves your anger is your husband. He made vows to you; they did not. They owe you nothing but common courtesy, and the fact that they didn't afford you that was something that was your husband's responsibility to handle. They could've asked him all day long to go out with them, but if he'd said no, that would've been the end of it. HE chose to put you and your mother at risk.
Deal with your husband problem and stop blaming his friends.
What do your conservative parents think?