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OP, let me lay it down thick: Your oldest brother groomed the girl. Full stop. He groomed her and used her. She was different then emotionally because she didn’t realize at the time what he was doing. He is a monster, you need to take a gigantic step back and start to realize this. I also guarantee he didn’t want to marry her because he was already thinking of a younger replacement. Hell, answer me this: how old are the girls he’s been with since?
In terms of how shes acting now, it clearly seems like she now realizes how horrible what he did was and how horrible she was treated, and she is coming to terms with everything. Your other brother has helped her with everything and getting her to open up about what she went through.
Also, about the end of the relationship: it is highly possible she initially ended it, but because she still was messed up internally because of what your older brother did to her she actually tried to undo it (good old Stockholm Syndrome) only for him to tell her to go away and that it was now over. Thus, they technically both broke up with the other, and neither are lying.
Your oldest brother is garbage, if you back him there us no doubt in my mind you support grooming, and you actually are down with him being a monster. Wake up, wake up now.
I think you should have a conversation with her. It doesn't sound right that she wouldn't talk it out if she had an issue with “schedules”. Like others said, she sounds avoidant.
OP should pay for her own room, he's covering everything already and he doesn't need the exposure, you do. So not to complicate things, stop being cheap and asking for spare rooms, ask what hotel he will be staying at so you can book your room asap and thank him for the rest. It's simple..
This is way over thinking. If you are that uncomfortable then mention to your wife in a calm friendly manner and offer to buy her a different night shirt. Don't go starting a huge argument over something that may be very small.
OP, let me lay it down thick: Your oldest brother groomed the girl. Full stop. He groomed her and used her. She was different then emotionally because she didn’t realize at the time what he was doing. He is a monster, you need to take a gigantic step back and start to realize this. I also guarantee he didn’t want to marry her because he was already thinking of a younger replacement. Hell, answer me this: how old are the girls he’s been with since?
In terms of how shes acting now, it clearly seems like she now realizes how horrible what he did was and how horrible she was treated, and she is coming to terms with everything. Your other brother has helped her with everything and getting her to open up about what she went through.
Also, about the end of the relationship: it is highly possible she initially ended it, but because she still was messed up internally because of what your older brother did to her she actually tried to undo it (good old Stockholm Syndrome) only for him to tell her to go away and that it was now over. Thus, they technically both broke up with the other, and neither are lying.
Your oldest brother is garbage, if you back him there us no doubt in my mind you support grooming, and you actually are down with him being a monster. Wake up, wake up now.
Pretty common gripe and its usually guys complaining about their female
partner. Still there are more than a few women who get tired of the fat slob their
SO morphs into. Even Gay and Lesbian couples report partners that let
themselves go. Past a certain point it gets really nude to shed pounds
when it seems like the whole world conspires to make a person gain.
Personally I see this less of a relationship issue and more of an
individual battle. The Good News is that Bonds are made so individuals
don't have to fight their battles by themselves and maybe this provides
a clue to ways to address this together. FWIW.
I think you should have a conversation with her. It doesn't sound right that she wouldn't talk it out if she had an issue with “schedules”. Like others said, she sounds avoidant.
OP should pay for her own room, he's covering everything already and he doesn't need the exposure, you do. So not to complicate things, stop being cheap and asking for spare rooms, ask what hotel he will be staying at so you can book your room asap and thank him for the rest. It's simple..
This is way over thinking. If you are that uncomfortable then mention to your wife in a calm friendly manner and offer to buy her a different night shirt. Don't go starting a huge argument over something that may be very small.
Please end it, and I encourage you to see your Gyno, to put your mind at ease. Then, you’ll be able to relax (as will your poor scrubbed vag lol)
OP, you deserve much more than to feel the way you do right now. Stop giving this asshole that power.