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It has only been a few days so I would advice you to try and calm down as nude as it might seem.
Being long distance means that you won't know everything that's going on in your day to day life because some things people just better talk about in person . Also he said he only talks about work stuff with his colluege so that sounds like he is just a bit stressed over work.
For some people it takes more energy to text so maybe he is just exhausted from work.
Important is that this behaviour won't go on for a longer time and that he will not stop talking to you at all.
That said: you might want to look into the whole thing again. If a few days of low contact alread, have just a huge impact on you chances are that long distance isn't for you.
Long distance means that it is harder to get a lot of attention. If you need that you might not be the type of person for that kind of relationship
If sex was what mattered most to your GF the most she'd be with that dude. She's with you by choice so take the win.
Relationships aren't a-la-carte where you pick the best sex, the best listener, the best provider – they're about finding the best match. Guess what? She thinks you're it.
I would feel creeped the fuck out. How does your gf not know how WILDLY inappropriate that is? She’s either naive and maybe been groomed by him or she is banging her stepdad. This is really fucking weird and there’s no way I’d be able to just forget about it after she just said oh, oops, I didn’t realize that was bad.
We are fortunate to be in the position that money isn't an issue for us right now. Therefore, the money we saved by staying longer in our home country was, to my husband, negligible. He feels that we will never again have an opportunity to travel as freely as we are able to do so now, and so that should have been the priority. You can't buy time, but you can earn money. So for him, that was an irretrievable loss.
I say agreement, but perhaps for him it felt more like grudging acceptance, because I was so adamant on staying longer in our home country and he didn't want to cause a fight.
The assignments are just for two modules that contribute a small percentage towards the overall course. I'm confident of doing reasonably well, although I believe I would do better if I had more time to do them. Doing them while travelling is possible although not ideal, I've done it on my previous trips and it's honestly quite tiring and the quality of the work is not great. He thinks I'm spending too much time on them and that I'm aiming for a great job when a good job would suffice. It's possible that he's right, I don't know until I stop putting in the effort.
Our future is definitely dual income, we've agreed on that. It's just that his company offered to pay his salary while on this training course and mine didn't, just a small living allowance. When we are working full-time, we earn about the same amount.
The agreement is basically that I won't hold back on travelling because I feel that I should be more frugal about spending since I have a more limited income for this year, especially since he's paying more of the rent. He felt that I broke this agreement by wanting to stay longer in our home country, the opportunity cost of which was one additional trip.
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He tells you he wants to travel somewhere. You confirm and go. Then what?
I suppose he's upset because he feels that I should be more enthusiastic on something that is so important to him, which hurts his feelings. Like if you were talking about a water park for ages and when you finally decide to go, your wife is like: “Eh, ok. I'll just do a shit job at my work so I can go with you, but it's possible.” Kills your enthusiasm for the trip and makes you feel like she doesn't really care how important it is to you.
Get a therapist. It’s one thing to say it was you but another to accept it and own it.
There’s pennies everywhere, she doesn’t need to spend her life shining you up for nothing.
Oh Honey, I'm so sorry you're going through this. Please know you're not alone.
It sounds like your marriage, and whole relationship, has been one-sided with you doing all the work and him just basking in his own glory. Now, when I say “work”, I'm not just talking about housework; I'm talking about always putting him first before yourself, worrying more about his mental health and stability more than you worry about your own, and seeming to have the belief deep-down inside that you are supposed to be subservient to him. None of these things happen in healthy, happy marriages – unless you are living in the 1950s.
I also have to question his motivation for even marrying you in the first place. You said “We were going to wait longer but we had to get married to get him a visa to on-line with me while I attended my dream school”. That right there was his reason to marry you. And then when he said he wanted a divorce, he realized that he would lose his visa if he did not stay married to you for 2 years. So he cried, said he was sorry, begged you to take him back, and now he'll wait the extra year before again announcing he wants a divorce.
Please, get into therapy for yourself. He's a big boy, he can find his own therapist without your help. It sounds like you are being used, and you deserve so much more than that. Also, see a lawyer and see what your options are in terms of ending the marriage. If you can prove that him marrying you was just for the visa, then that's fraud and you might be able to get an annulment instead of a divorce. But only a lawyer can tell you whether or not that's possible.
I know you're hurting right now, but I promise you – it will not always hurt this much. You will heal, but it will take time. As for the trust? I could never trust someone who deliberately hurt me that deeply ever again.
You’re right, I need to pull myself to do it then. Thank you