I am still young. I barely know what’s going on, I’m struggling with mental health issues so I doubt my judgement is as good as it should be.
This shows such a clarity and self-awareness that is so fucking rare at your age, I just have to point it out and say kudos. And it is really smart to be concerned about this… not because it means you have poor judgement but because there are really shitty people out there who will sniff out those issues a mile away and target you to manipulate because of it. The only way your judgement plays into it is that it also means you may tolerate and accept treatment you normally wouldn't when these issues are under control. I think it is incredibly healthy and wise to be aware of this and look out for yourself here.
Seems like she’s in an abusive relationship. There’s not much more you can do, you didn’t do anything wrong either. Hopefully she’ll wake up sooner rather than later, then you can reach out. Or she may, if she finally has had enough.
I agree with keeping your head down until you can get away. Make sure you have all of your important documents and items and hide them. Don’t give any indication that you’re not coming back, keep up the pretense until you’re on the plane.
Woah man. This is 100% grounds for breaking up. I couldn’t trust again. Wonder what she’ll next time you aren’t around and an attractive muscular successful man hits on her again? These are questions you must ask yourself. She has proven she can’t be trusted.
I am still young. I barely know what’s going on, I’m struggling with mental health issues so I doubt my judgement is as good as it should be.
This shows such a clarity and self-awareness that is so fucking rare at your age, I just have to point it out and say kudos. And it is really smart to be concerned about this… not because it means you have poor judgement but because there are really shitty people out there who will sniff out those issues a mile away and target you to manipulate because of it. The only way your judgement plays into it is that it also means you may tolerate and accept treatment you normally wouldn't when these issues are under control. I think it is incredibly healthy and wise to be aware of this and look out for yourself here.
Let him just enjoy his hobbies peacefully ffs
You have your opinions, thats fine. But you need not rub it in his face – especially if it’s something that he enjoys.
Seems like she’s in an abusive relationship. There’s not much more you can do, you didn’t do anything wrong either. Hopefully she’ll wake up sooner rather than later, then you can reach out. Or she may, if she finally has had enough.
You gave 7 reasons to believe she is really in to you. Nothing you wrote would suggest otherwise.
I agree with keeping your head down until you can get away. Make sure you have all of your important documents and items and hide them. Don’t give any indication that you’re not coming back, keep up the pretense until you’re on the plane.
Woah man. This is 100% grounds for breaking up. I couldn’t trust again. Wonder what she’ll next time you aren’t around and an attractive muscular successful man hits on her again? These are questions you must ask yourself. She has proven she can’t be trusted.