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You don't have to cut it out, but definitely figure out a way to scale back. Too much of anything is never good.
Also you're not responsible for being the funny one all the time. You need to figure out a healthy way to have conversations that both of you will enjoy.
Guys , I have a feeling she was abused as well , but won’t admit it . Because what are the odds , he skipped her ? Everyone has different personalities and hers took a different route than her sisters . Which btw might explain her reactions to her sisters .
How does someone ignore their partner on accident? Especially when they're laying right next you giving you snuggles. I don't know that I buy that. In any case, you both need to use your words.
If you are going to break up with him, do it in a public place and warn his family about his suicidal tendencies and breakup. If he threatens suicide call emergency services and let them handle the rest.
Yeah that's my whole point. She still is his friend. I completely agree with you on developing attraction towards others, it happens to everyone I understand, but acting on it is trashy, which this guy did.
She literally couldn’t be left alone with another guy for 15 minutes while on a date with you. Even if you’re not exclusive, that shows really poor impulse control and judgment and is pretty tacky. No protection, either.
It may not be cheating but it does show a discrepancy in values/character that would nag at me, too, and would make it naked to trust. And it sounds like if he’d just been better at sex she may not have even chose you, which would make anyone feel insecure.
I would talk to a therapist about it, specifically ways to try to get over it or get to the root of why it bothers you. But really if it’s been a year you likely won’t get over it. I don’t think I could. And if your friend knew you were on a date…kind of crappy from him too.
This is way above Reddit’s pay grade he needs to go see a doctor immediately. Vomiting while unconscious can be deadly. Not breathing can obviously be deadly.
Regarding your update, unfortunately, it's going to take some re-training with your parents, and probably a bit of time cutting them off (temporarily), until they change their mindset. It's definitely going to be naked on you, since you and your parents are used to this dynamic and they think you're required to heed them, regardless. The first generation to immigrate to a new culture are always the hardest to transition. Good luck, OP!
You don't have to cut it out, but definitely figure out a way to scale back. Too much of anything is never good.
Also you're not responsible for being the funny one all the time. You need to figure out a healthy way to have conversations that both of you will enjoy.
Guys , I have a feeling she was abused as well , but won’t admit it . Because what are the odds , he skipped her ? Everyone has different personalities and hers took a different route than her sisters . Which btw might explain her reactions to her sisters .
If it’s a suite with two bedrooms then it may not be as bad.
Red flaggggg. As a therapist I do not do my job with people I know. I legit tell my friends to pay for therapy for this reason.
First of all he’s not your therapist, he’s not trained and no therapist would belittle you for your mental health.
Dump the loser. Seriously you can do way better
How does someone ignore their partner on accident? Especially when they're laying right next you giving you snuggles. I don't know that I buy that. In any case, you both need to use your words.
If you don't want to be in school, then drop out.
If your job is stressing you out, quit. there's tons of jobs open right now, surely you're qualified for at least one of them.
AI wrote this one.
Maybe he’s building an art room.
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I was looking for this!
I don’t understand how it’s HIS fault that YOU looked this girl up. Did he hold your eyes open and make you?
If you are going to break up with him, do it in a public place and warn his family about his suicidal tendencies and breakup. If he threatens suicide call emergency services and let them handle the rest.
Gross. No.. THEY SHOULD BE PAYING FOR THR SITTER!!! It's their damn wedding. THEY are being assholes and petty.
Wow learning sucks
Yeah that's my whole point. She still is his friend. I completely agree with you on developing attraction towards others, it happens to everyone I understand, but acting on it is trashy, which this guy did.
She literally couldn’t be left alone with another guy for 15 minutes while on a date with you. Even if you’re not exclusive, that shows really poor impulse control and judgment and is pretty tacky. No protection, either.
It may not be cheating but it does show a discrepancy in values/character that would nag at me, too, and would make it naked to trust. And it sounds like if he’d just been better at sex she may not have even chose you, which would make anyone feel insecure.
I would talk to a therapist about it, specifically ways to try to get over it or get to the root of why it bothers you. But really if it’s been a year you likely won’t get over it. I don’t think I could. And if your friend knew you were on a date…kind of crappy from him too.
It is exactly a typical age gap relationship.
This is opening Pandora’s box. There are so many ways this can go very badly that it’s not worth it.
Never cheat, even with permission and/or them present, on someone you love and want to stay with.
This is way above Reddit’s pay grade he needs to go see a doctor immediately. Vomiting while unconscious can be deadly. Not breathing can obviously be deadly.
Last spring being the earliest and this fall being the latest
Where exactly will you be waiting ?
Regarding your update, unfortunately, it's going to take some re-training with your parents, and probably a bit of time cutting them off (temporarily), until they change their mindset. It's definitely going to be naked on you, since you and your parents are used to this dynamic and they think you're required to heed them, regardless. The first generation to immigrate to a new culture are always the hardest to transition. Good luck, OP!
Just be honest, better to know now if it will work or not vs years later of marriage and possible kids!
We share a dog so I don't really want to do that. I'm just more confused as to why he changed so suddenly.