If you’re having these feelings then he isn’t the one for you. You wouldn’t be having these feelings if you were with someone with whom you are actually comparable and meant to spend your life with.
I still care about him and wish him the absolute best but I’m no longer in love with him and I don’t want to work it out, the cancer explains some things but it doesn’t change things for me. It’s doesn’t erase the damage to our relationship and I don’t want to work things out anymore.
Tell him what you wrote right here.
It sucks that he has cancer, but you’re right that the cancer doesn’t erase the damage that was done to your relationship.
Sits in the garage smoking, scrolling on Facebook and talking to mates. If not that then he's laying on the sofa bed he's permanently set up in the loungeroom on Facebook
Just break up with him, I had to re read it the summary again. I don't think he deceived you, I think you over estimated what he brought to the table.
If you’re having these feelings then he isn’t the one for you. You wouldn’t be having these feelings if you were with someone with whom you are actually comparable and meant to spend your life with.
I still care about him and wish him the absolute best but I’m no longer in love with him and I don’t want to work it out, the cancer explains some things but it doesn’t change things for me. It’s doesn’t erase the damage to our relationship and I don’t want to work things out anymore.
Tell him what you wrote right here.
It sucks that he has cancer, but you’re right that the cancer doesn’t erase the damage that was done to your relationship.
He is blaming you? That is called blame shifting. Go to surviving infidelity.com. It helped me with a cheating wife. Look up gaslighting
Sits in the garage smoking, scrolling on Facebook and talking to mates. If not that then he's laying on the sofa bed he's permanently set up in the loungeroom on Facebook