6 thoughts on “Ariadevlin on-line sex chats for YOU!”
OP isn’t a swinger and doesn’t know about the lifestyle.
OP didn’t really want to get into it but got pressured by husband.
OP isn’t capable of having ‘just sex’ with people she isn’t comfortable with and told this to husband.
Husband said that’s ok let’s go to swingers parties ASAP anyway.
At the parties OP finds one person she is friendly with and only has sex with him while the husband goes off and does his thing. He doesn’t ask and she doesn’t tell as per their agreement.
Next time they are planning to go to a party, the husband wants a threesome and she suggests a third who will be at the party she is comfortable with.
Husband goes apeshit because he didn’t even bother to ask her if she had sex or had a good time when they go to these parties. He never even bothered to check in with her, to see if she had a good time going to these parties and knowing that she is new to everything.
His thing was don’t ask don’t tell. She followed his only boundaries. He is in the wrong.
You can’t have unspoken boundaries and expect them to be followed and then get mad when they aren’t. Especially when it isn’t something that most people even understand.
He’s made his intentions pretty clear and gave you an out to do a future event without a room share.
People are saying the obvious choice is to book your own room, but my question is, if you choose to not share a room, does he extend the invite to someone else as his plus one? That’s how I interpreted it.
When she mentioned addiction I thought she was hiding a coke habit. He’s freaking out because she likes beach reads? What an insane and elitist thing to have a problem with.
Life is hot. Disconnecting once in a while is vital. Someone who can’t understand that is either hopelessly snobby or doesn’t believe their own indulgences should be up for judgment. I wonder if he watches Marvel movies and judges her romance novels because they’re traditionally feminine. Like people who follow sports but think reality television is for mindless idiots.
You sound exhausting and privileged. He should have been honest too but damn you are questioning the whole marriage off of a house down payment. Just leave. It's doomed to fail anyway.
OP isn’t a swinger and doesn’t know about the lifestyle.
OP didn’t really want to get into it but got pressured by husband.
OP isn’t capable of having ‘just sex’ with people she isn’t comfortable with and told this to husband.
Husband said that’s ok let’s go to swingers parties ASAP anyway.
At the parties OP finds one person she is friendly with and only has sex with him while the husband goes off and does his thing. He doesn’t ask and she doesn’t tell as per their agreement.
Next time they are planning to go to a party, the husband wants a threesome and she suggests a third who will be at the party she is comfortable with.
Husband goes apeshit because he didn’t even bother to ask her if she had sex or had a good time when they go to these parties. He never even bothered to check in with her, to see if she had a good time going to these parties and knowing that she is new to everything.
His thing was don’t ask don’t tell. She followed his only boundaries. He is in the wrong.
You can’t have unspoken boundaries and expect them to be followed and then get mad when they aren’t. Especially when it isn’t something that most people even understand.
I said stop swinging as in they both stop. It’s obvious they need counseling before either one of them go any further into this lifestyle.
He’s made his intentions pretty clear and gave you an out to do a future event without a room share.
People are saying the obvious choice is to book your own room, but my question is, if you choose to not share a room, does he extend the invite to someone else as his plus one? That’s how I interpreted it.
I’d wait until the next event.
When she mentioned addiction I thought she was hiding a coke habit. He’s freaking out because she likes beach reads? What an insane and elitist thing to have a problem with.
Life is hot. Disconnecting once in a while is vital. Someone who can’t understand that is either hopelessly snobby or doesn’t believe their own indulgences should be up for judgment. I wonder if he watches Marvel movies and judges her romance novels because they’re traditionally feminine. Like people who follow sports but think reality television is for mindless idiots.
You sound exhausting and privileged. He should have been honest too but damn you are questioning the whole marriage off of a house down payment. Just leave. It's doomed to fail anyway.
Haha gotcha, sorry I was just super curious!