I tried that a couple yrs back. Let him know I had envisioned my life a different way and that I really wanted to have the experience of living on my own and supporting myself. At first he assumed I just didn't want to be in a relationship and just wanted to not on-line with him.anymore. then he actually started helping look for apartments but the way he helped was back handed. Like “what do you mean your taking the bed frame?” Well I bought it. “So I have to sleep with the mattress of the floor?” Thats how it was when I met you. Basically made me feel guilty and I ended up not doing it.
Not dated him? I mean we didnโt have sex til I was 18 so nothing illegal happened but no matter how mature you are at 18 you are just spreading your wings as an adult and not necessarily making good choices while at 23 you should know better.
Get into some serious therapy and get to the root of YOUR issues. It sure as hell is not your girlfriend. But in all honestly look at you for her perceptive. You require he to carry your emotional needs on her shoulders. She can't have a conversation with you due to you having a emotional breakdown. That would kill any relationship.
itโs because he was telling me something his mum told him and it implied i wasnt letting him breathe, so i asked about it and he ended up telling me what his mum told him the other day ๐
I think I'll try this. I'll let you guys know how it goes
I tried that a couple yrs back. Let him know I had envisioned my life a different way and that I really wanted to have the experience of living on my own and supporting myself. At first he assumed I just didn't want to be in a relationship and just wanted to not on-line with him.anymore. then he actually started helping look for apartments but the way he helped was back handed. Like “what do you mean your taking the bed frame?” Well I bought it. “So I have to sleep with the mattress of the floor?” Thats how it was when I met you. Basically made me feel guilty and I ended up not doing it.
Not dated him? I mean we didnโt have sex til I was 18 so nothing illegal happened but no matter how mature you are at 18 you are just spreading your wings as an adult and not necessarily making good choices while at 23 you should know better.
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Maybe he's a porn addict
Every single post says this and then they go on to describe the worst piece of crap human ever.
Get into some serious therapy and get to the root of YOUR issues. It sure as hell is not your girlfriend. But in all honestly look at you for her perceptive. You require he to carry your emotional needs on her shoulders. She can't have a conversation with you due to you having a emotional breakdown. That would kill any relationship.
itโs because he was telling me something his mum told him and it implied i wasnt letting him breathe, so i asked about it and he ended up telling me what his mum told him the other day ๐