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You don’t sound mature enough for an adult relationship. You could have walked away when you found out the number, but you didn’t. Everyone’s entitled to have a preference. But it’s uncool to sit on Reddit and complain about it now when you’ve known the entire relationship.
I can’t move out right now so I can’t meet up with my boyfriend , how can I do that?
I absolutely have. I’ve got ten years of this bullshit. Problem is after more than half a decade of yelling back I’ve realized it only makes the situation worse. I’ve learned how to avoid it “most” of the time but honestly it’s the kids and how it’s affecting them that I’m the most concerned about. Because if it’s not me it’s them she goes after next
So I think the choice of either putting up with this or full on divorcing is probably one of the reasons you have put up with this for so long. There is a whole host of choices between those two things, and it is time to start standing up for yourself.
I will tell you it isn't normal, and even if it is for some people, it doesn't have to be for you. I am pretty open about sex, so is my partner, but anything that can video me would make me uncomfortable, and so would anything that is a distraction- aka I wouldn't read a book during sex, so I wouldn't want someone on their phone either. And again, even if he thinks it is normal or okay, it doesn't mean you have to agree. So stop doing it.
Step one: Stop having sex when he is using his phone. You can tell him in advance- you being on your phone during oral is something I have put up with but you know it bothers me. I just can't do it anymore, so if you pull your phone out, sex is over for the night.
Step two: When he pulls out his phone, stop. You don't have to have a fight about it, just stop whatever sex is happening and get ready for bed/get in bed/go back to whatever it was you were doing before sex. You have warned him, you don't need to make a production of it, just have the attitude and approach of -phone is out, sex is over- and act accordingly.
Step three: Do not fight about this. You do not want him on his phone during sex, you have expressed this, and if he does it anyway, he doesn't want to keep having sex. There is not a negotiation to be had, he doesn't need to convince you or make any more points.
Let me be very clear, sex is about mutual satisfaction, and any and all kinks, positions, locations, accessories need to work for ALL the people involved in sexual situation. If one party doesn't want something, that's it, it is a no go. Sure, people can do certain things they don't enjoy once in awhile for the benefit of their partner, but that is also a choice and shouldn't be about active discomfort, just something you aren't that in to but fine with. And partners who trust and value each other would never want their partner to be in a position to do something they don't enjoy. Your husband is making it clear he doesn't care about your feelings, your desires, or in making you feel good during sex. So stop.
After you stand up for yourself- and do not argue about whether it is okay to have a phone, it doesn't matter, you don't like it so aren't participating, the end- then you can see if you can stay married. You have stood up for yourself and created a boundary, and then the two of you can decide if the marriage can work. And if he sticks with he deserves 20 minutes of oral while on his phone and it must happen, well then get a divorce.