Words like “gaslighting” has kind of become internet buzzwords as of late, and all I can think is that maybe your boyfriend is too busy airing your dirty relationship laundry to people who watch too many TikToks to really think about why these arguments occur in the first place.
Maybe I'm just too old, but I can't imagine feeling like I would need to “defend” myself against my partner. Either way, I guess the easiest way to defend yourself against these accusations is to share the textbook definition of “gaslighting” with your boyfriend and asking in what way he feels like you're trying to distort his reality or negate his experience of things.
If he can't explain his feeling, it is probably a good time to ask him if he would like to lay off his buzzword usage and focus on the actual issues that bring you to have these arguments in the first place.
She is not the best decision maker on so many levels.
Did he say this one time? like in a panic?
No offense but f*ck them. They can play with the crackhead if they want.
Words like “gaslighting” has kind of become internet buzzwords as of late, and all I can think is that maybe your boyfriend is too busy airing your dirty relationship laundry to people who watch too many TikToks to really think about why these arguments occur in the first place.
Maybe I'm just too old, but I can't imagine feeling like I would need to “defend” myself against my partner. Either way, I guess the easiest way to defend yourself against these accusations is to share the textbook definition of “gaslighting” with your boyfriend and asking in what way he feels like you're trying to distort his reality or negate his experience of things.
If he can't explain his feeling, it is probably a good time to ask him if he would like to lay off his buzzword usage and focus on the actual issues that bring you to have these arguments in the first place.
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