How long until you both graduate? Honestly, if you are sure you don't want kids, or at least not that soon, I would amicably end it because there's no future in it. The relationship either has an expiration date, or he may end up trying to get you to change your mind,which is incredibly toxic.
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towards the end I would just go about my life and effectively returned te silent treatment.
he would eventually blow up at me though, he escalated to shouting at me routinely, not allowing me to sleep etc. I left
returning the silent treatment is better than the alternatives I tried previously he delighted in making me feel like crap and apologise for things that were normal.
How long until you both graduate? Honestly, if you are sure you don't want kids, or at least not that soon, I would amicably end it because there's no future in it. The relationship either has an expiration date, or he may end up trying to get you to change your mind,which is incredibly toxic.
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What was the fight about?
The skills to handling a defensive person are not easy to learn. I often have to say: you need to stop, I am on your side, I am always on your side, but you treating me this way is still wrong and needs to stop. It doesn't make you a bad human, just human.
Been there.
towards the end I would just go about my life and effectively returned te silent treatment.
he would eventually blow up at me though, he escalated to shouting at me routinely, not allowing me to sleep etc. I left
returning the silent treatment is better than the alternatives I tried previously he delighted in making me feel like crap and apologise for things that were normal.