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You're welcome. I spent a few years in an abusive relationship; I was young and had no kids. I also had a good support system along with an ex partner who also wanted to separate. And you know what? It was really hot to leave. So I do somewhat understand where you're coming from. Thankfully, your husband isn't physically abusive (yet?) so in some ways it gives you a bit more time to get your ducks in a row. Just remember and keep telling yourself, you deserve someone who cherishes you, who won't want to control anything you do, and who loves you unconditionally. You deserve that. You don't need to stay with someone who doesn't do any of that.
If you ever need to talk, please feel free to pm me.
I'm going to prefix by saying that people who move in together after 6 months of dating, it usually ends up being a mistake. There is too much uncertainty that comes along with it, and this is what you're facing.
You two, absolutely need to get on the same page about your personalities. An introvert, needs a relationship that is structured in a way that is comfortable to them. And you need a person who understands that about you.
You need your balance. If you don't get your balance, you actually preform worse in the relationship overall. If your partner gave you the space you need to recharge, she would get a more fulfilling side of you to engage with (been there done that myself).
Her not having a job… needs to be fixed. If this goes on for months, no motivation to get one etc. That is enough of a reason to break up with someone. How can you trust her to take the relationship seriously if she isn't even taking their own life seriously. At that point, you're just being used.
With a job, that will be less of a weight placed on you. You have to come home to entertain her because she's been sitting around all day bored.
Also, we don't even know if this is her true sex drive. Why? Because her life is unfulfilling to her. Its not satisfying. So, of course she is going to look for those little spurts of gratification at the end of the day that makes her feel good about herself, that is the only thing she looks forward to. I do suspect if she got her own shit together, her drive would tone down a bit.
To review your questions:
Yes, early stages. 1 year is a long time, but you're still building the relationship (in theory). It takes a long time to get to know a person and understand how your own relationship works. Yes. I am in one (Im introvert, shes extrovert). We understand our differences and work around it. She has a massive social life, while I have minimal. I tone down her crazy lifestyle and she gets me out of my shell. She knows that at times, I need my peace and quiet. And I do my best to step up and go to her gatherings and be outgoing. There's compromises at every step. Not particularly, unless you're telling her that. You simply do not have the energy to preform, which doesn't mean a lack of attraction. In fact I would argue against her, she is not understanding you as a person and how you're feeling burnt out. That is making it one sided. Seeing how you made the recent commitment, I would make a serious attempt at fixing things. But moving forward, make sure you're doing this relationship for the right reasons. Start to pay attention to the functionality of you two, IMO, I see a lack of compatibility (doesn't mean it can't be corrected). Stand up for yourself and relay your side… if she doesn't understand it, then you're getting information to break it off. And she needs a dam job. Communicate to her “Hey, I am unhappy, this is serious, and some things need to change in order for us to work”. You need to instill some serious vibes into your relationship. How she responds to that is how you decide what's best for you.
Good luck!
With the replies you've given, there's been some very bad communication. It's not at all surprising you think this is too much, but if you're saying it didn't bother you that much until your mom made an issue out of it, this is a bit scary.
You do have a say in how your wedding photos are distributed, but the time to address it is before this happens. And mom doesn't get a vote. It's between the 2 of you.
Yeah, I call troll, although I admit it's at least a tiny bit different.
U were likely too needy and boring and predictable