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  1. Your GF made her bed. She put herself in this difficult situation. You are in your right to have her choose, him or you. You won't be okay with her hanging out with him, but she likely doesn't want to give up her friends too.

    This doesn't sound like a relationship that's going to survive. I certainly wouldn't be able to stick around.

    PS! I saw in a comment that you are afraid of being alone. I understand that, but also that isn't healthy either. If you feel like you need to be in a relationship, then you shouldn't be in one. What I mean by this is, when you're afraid of being alone you put yourself in a dangerous situation where you could let yourself get taken advantage of because the other part knows you're not going to leave them.

    My advice for you is to work on this. Have more alone time. Find things you like to do. Go on hikes, do a full clean of your place, make a lavish meal. Learn to not be reliant on someone else for your happiness.

  2. This is whole lot of stuff about you, your emotional illness and your feelings. You don't much mention how stiflingly oppressive it would be for someone to be told they have to report their whereabouts to you at all times. Your therapist might see this as an opportunity for you to learn to respect other people. But just viewing it from the outside it's absolutely clear that you're just not ready to be a relationship. Having a partner is supposed to be a net positive in your life. It's not supposed to make you so anxious that you turn into a Stasi agent. It's also not supposed to be mean you're basically someone else's prisoner in that they track your activities like this. This can't be enjoyable for either one of you.

  3. Well since you bring up therapy, I actually am taking it. Not for this but in general I see a therapist and I've talked about this. She said it's normal, kinks don't have to be rooted in trauma. Her advice was to communicate it and be patient.

    See he doesn't feel weird at all when I call him “daddy” or “papi”, that's actually something he likes.

    And yeah it's pretty weird being jealous of a dog right? That's why it's making me feel dumb bro but thanks for the advice :]

  4. This will get worse. He is a bad guy and will never be a good one. Don’t waste any more time with someone who is abusing you. It will hurt to leave but you will find someone worthy of your love.

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