That's a red flag for me. I'm a girl if that matters. I'll never date anyone who just expects me to pay for their food (I always pay for mine). Nobody is that important specially on first date lol
if she knows i reckon she is staying with me to keep a good life style. She hasnt worked for over 14 years and i pay for everything for her, i earn good money and she has a good life style with me. She even mentioned once about couples who cheat but ignore it and just stay together. i have felt guilty when im having house parties for new years and we are out as a couple with our friends over to dinner and my girlfriend is on her own but i try to not think like that
That's a red flag for me. I'm a girl if that matters. I'll never date anyone who just expects me to pay for their food (I always pay for mine). Nobody is that important specially on first date lol
In person I reckon ?
Maybe OP’s wife is having an affair with that other person’s husband who just got caught before having surgery.
if she knows i reckon she is staying with me to keep a good life style. She hasnt worked for over 14 years and i pay for everything for her, i earn good money and she has a good life style with me. She even mentioned once about couples who cheat but ignore it and just stay together. i have felt guilty when im having house parties for new years and we are out as a couple with our friends over to dinner and my girlfriend is on her own but i try to not think like that
You aren't stuck you just need to take small baby steps. The first step is ithebhardest
You can do this
Make copies of all financials Make apt for lawyer Get a therapist