Does it matter why? Don't continue your relations with those people and look for better friends.
Yes btw, you do come of narcissistic. I wonder if they liked you in the first place? If this attitude of being better is spilling out of you that could be the cause.
Your needs and wants aren't subservient to hers. You can be simultaneously respectful of her shit while being true to your own. If this isn't what you want you can walk away.
Would your parents consider relocating? Resentment is not something you want to have in a marriage. If there's no way for you to feel at home with him, it will never work.
Yeah and if it is well moderated and thoroughly vetted then sure, I would agree. But look what happened to OP; completely innocent, had his picture stolen, the story got blasted on a podcast, and multiple women in his life heard terrible things about him that weren't true. He deserves a legal avenue to sue and get damages, from both her for slandering him, and the group for publishing false claims
If you asking about hitting and quitting – I do not think that is a problem.
If you are asking about long term etc., Nine hours and 14 years is a lot, add a child, custody, and an ex that is a lot of junk in the trunk. So I would be not inclined to handle that much baggage.
Especially when you are just start to hit your stride – in a job, an apartment, car, finance, etc.,
I would enjoy the time in the saddle, but I would not be willing to put the money into that pony. Find a younger model, or one with less baggage of an ex, a child, and a huge distance to drive. Trust me that will get old in about six months.
Yep, your're being childish.
Is it now over?
You are in the wrong. Only one way out. You are to end it.
Does it matter why? Don't continue your relations with those people and look for better friends.
Yes btw, you do come of narcissistic. I wonder if they liked you in the first place? If this attitude of being better is spilling out of you that could be the cause.
Just wanted to say beautiful point of view. Pretty sure you're a great father based purely off paragraph
Knock her out!!
Then your dad can invite your husband over.
Your needs and wants aren't subservient to hers. You can be simultaneously respectful of her shit while being true to your own. If this isn't what you want you can walk away.
Would your parents consider relocating? Resentment is not something you want to have in a marriage. If there's no way for you to feel at home with him, it will never work.
I canโt just leave. Iโm bonded by the lease.
Yeah and if it is well moderated and thoroughly vetted then sure, I would agree. But look what happened to OP; completely innocent, had his picture stolen, the story got blasted on a podcast, and multiple women in his life heard terrible things about him that weren't true. He deserves a legal avenue to sue and get damages, from both her for slandering him, and the group for publishing false claims
If you asking about hitting and quitting – I do not think that is a problem.
If you are asking about long term etc., Nine hours and 14 years is a lot, add a child, custody, and an ex that is a lot of junk in the trunk. So I would be not inclined to handle that much baggage.
Especially when you are just start to hit your stride – in a job, an apartment, car, finance, etc.,
I would enjoy the time in the saddle, but I would not be willing to put the money into that pony. Find a younger model, or one with less baggage of an ex, a child, and a huge distance to drive. Trust me that will get old in about six months.
Stay out of it! She will hang herself eventually.