You absolutely were manipulated. That is not a healthy way to achieve a relationship, and definitely not the foundation to start a lasting relationship on. I would hand this off to her parents as soon as possible; you’re sitting on a land mine.
she needs a therapist, not a boyfriend. This is not your job to fix.
My love, what you do is so crucial and amazing. That he ignored the fact that you were so upset over losing that baby, shows his selfishness. End it and move on. He’s not worth your energy.
Do you know she's not also married? Has she done anything inappropriate? Is really not that unusual for people to be friendly.
If you don't want to make it weird, don't bring up some assumed crush like it's something you need to address. If she legitimately crosses a line abs gets personal, that's one thing.
You absolutely were manipulated. That is not a healthy way to achieve a relationship, and definitely not the foundation to start a lasting relationship on. I would hand this off to her parents as soon as possible; you’re sitting on a land mine.
she needs a therapist, not a boyfriend. This is not your job to fix.
One got me and my bank froze my account at negative 3000
My love, what you do is so crucial and amazing. That he ignored the fact that you were so upset over losing that baby, shows his selfishness. End it and move on. He’s not worth your energy.
Leave him now. It's only gonna get worse
Do you know she's not also married? Has she done anything inappropriate? Is really not that unusual for people to be friendly.
If you don't want to make it weird, don't bring up some assumed crush like it's something you need to address. If she legitimately crosses a line abs gets personal, that's one thing.