Press right there to start video
Room for online video chats Baby_nora
Baby_noralive sex stripping with hd cam
25K Share
Press right there to start video or
Room for live sex video chat Baby_nora
Model from:
Languages: en,de,ru
Birth Date: 2003-09-14
Body Type: bodyTypeThin
Ethnicity: ethnicityWhite
Hair color: hairColorBlonde
Eyes color: eyeColorBrown
Subculture: subcultureStudent
">
I mean, take same ownership of your own life dude. She’s your wife, not your mother. You tell her we will be doing couples therapy or else we’re not buying a house.
Could you have voiced this better ? Yes sure Should you apologize for the way you handled this ? Yes Are you wrong for feeling this way ? No this watch is clearly very sentimental to you and i completely understand why you wanted to buy this yourself. She took away that from you by buying it for you.
I would talk with your gf. Explain again why you want to buy this with your own money and why you want to be the one to buy it and have her return this watch.
You've only been with him for 7 months and you already know you can't trust him, this guy is definitely trouble.
You're also only 19 and have tonnes of life ahead of you, I do realize that this is somewhat the reason you might be overthinking this.
Person you can't trust = not worth your time.
It's that simple.
and some of the responses seem like were written by AI
Pretty much this yeah.. Gross also OP has a history of dating younger women he then has very toxic behavior towards leading to unhealthy relationships. Mistrust being a main one because he's probably afraid they are gonna find someone better who is actually their own age and in the same space in life.
It's disgusting to want to get into a similar relationship only to want to exert that same shit over with. Her. Different girl same setup!
I have been in both of your shoes. In my family, arguments were horrible and abusive, so I would either shut down, blow up, or both. My ex boyfriend would shut down during disagreements and it would cause arguements because I would get upset that he wasn't responding/listening. Now, I've learned better communication skills, and if I feel myself about to blow up and/or say things to upset the other person, I purposefully shut down so I can take some space and clear my head.
Your boyfriend most likely has some trauma and/or problems surrounding arguements. It's nude to deal with without therapy, but there's lots of resources live that he could use to help the problem. On the other hand, if you'd like to help him, try to learn the signs of him being overwhelmed and voluntarily give him the space he needs to deal with it to get back to baseline. I've just started DBT, but resources for distress tolerance might be helpful (or just DBT in general).
When you say that most discussions turn into arguements because he's easily overwhelmed, what does that look like? If you're having a discussion and he gets overwhelmed and starts to shut down, what escalates it into an arguement? I understand that having someone shut down/not respond when you're trying to convey an issue can be frustrating, but escalating it doesn't help and causes him to shut down more. If a disagreement happens and he starts to shut down (5/10 on the overwhelmed scale) then an argument can raise it to 10/10, which will take longer to recover from. If either of you can recognize the signs of being at 5/10 and give him space to recover, you will be able to discuss the issue in a better state. That down time will be good for you too, if you use to to think about the issues and possibly reframe it in a way that is easier to deal with and cause less arguements. This can also train his subconscious to get less overwhelmed, as if these discussions settle without arguements they'll stop triggering that distress response.
With my ex boyfriend, we would have issues that I would try and discuss, he'd get overwhelmed (which I interpreted as not caring/listening), then I'd get more upset and continue on about the issue, berating him until he “listened” and agreed with me. However valid the issues were, communicating like that just made things worse. He wouldn't want to work on the issues for fear of me getting upset, but then I'd get upset because he wasn't working on them. I learned better communication skills, but he wasn't willing to work on it, so it was one of the reasons that eventually led to our breakup.
One thing that my current partner and I do is if either of us feels overwhelmed, we stop arguing and instead write long texts (or letters in google docs if it exceeds the character limit). It really helps to use I statements (I feel…) so the other person doesn't feel attacked. Definitely look up resources to communicate better as well.
I just think he needs to spell out his expectations for your relationship.
Is he going to be the guy that says you never get to party with your friends? That you never get to look at hot guys? That you can’t do anything without him for fear of cheating?
Cause obviously if he thinks those things this relationship isn’t going anywhere good.
Or maybe it’ll wake him up that he needs to unclench his asshole and remember this is as much an opportunity for him as it is for you.
He can choose to go party with his boys and get up to a little mischief the same as you, and you’ll both be better for it.
I don’t agree with other people here saying you have a responsibility to be good and wholesome in Vegas. Fuck that. You deserve to experience fun and exciting things. You should do fun things.