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Such posts usually get a number of very similar replies. Some will say that your partner should feel free to discuss anything with you. Others will say that certain conversations have consequences and raising opening a relationship well into an established monogamous one is something that should be approached with great caution. Personally it’s far to glib to say you shouldn’t be bothered by the question if your partner assures you they are happy with you if the answer to opening the relationship is no – I don’t want a partner who wants to be with other people. In OP’s case there’s definitely the complicating factor of his girlfriend having been off/distant for a month. I think many people will read this as her being into someone else – and seeking to open the relationship so she can also be with new person without cheating. Personally having someone in mind before you seek to open the relationship would basically be cheating to me – I doubt the relationship would continue. After 4 years together I wouldn’t have recommended communication before instantly ending things but I share OP’s reservations. I don’t know why people would believe that after your partner telling you they want to have sex with other people that you should be totally reassured if you say no.
I think you'll find it's not a lot of people's cup of tea, but at least you are an older adult. Not like a 20 year old with a 40 year old or something like that. Most people know what they want at your age.
No bb. This isn’t a he decides. This is a you have to set a standard and boundary for how men can treat you. He’s told you your not enough and he wants other women.
If my husband and father of my kids came to me and said this we would be getting a divorce – no if’s and or buts. That day he would be out of the house.
No 1: This boy has told you he wants other women, that you aren’t enough and he’s been thinking about it consistently. The relationship is not as important as his concept of a “college experience” and has told you that. He’s tried to get his cake and eat it too – and you have let him.
No 2: he is telling you men are studs and should be allowed to spread there seed (later this turns into: men cheat, it’s different when women cheat etc. ) without judgment. It sounds like he might even be asking you for it to be open only on his end.
You need to leave. For your own self respect. If you stay, it will end with you feeling demoralised and letting your standards slip. He’s already told you he wants other women and you stay. Next stop is him cheating and you staying. This train doesn’t go to any good stops babe. You lived you loved, but your time with him is now over. It wasn’t a waste, it was a beautiful teen romance that ended – as almost all do. YOU go and have YOUR college experience. Don’t let your BOYfriend stop you from meeting a MAN.
I think you need to think of older men as having a much higher bar set than younger men. The younger you are, the more you can blame on immaturity and lack of experience.
I just went on a 10 day trip to South America for school while my husband happily stayed home with our 2 daughters. A secure man won’t care at all and encourage such a trip. Go on the trip.
I have cut off amazing people that I deeply miss and once considered dear friends because they were stuck in toxic cycles of bad relationships. It’s nude seeing someone you love so unwilling to love themselves, and at some point it’s more stress and damage than anything else. They spend so much energy defending their partner and become so unrecognizable when they’re around. It’s just hot to watch and harder to condone, and to me it was impossible to support.
This is your chance to let her know your boundaries. She knows he sucks, she filters what she says about him and refuses to discuss your opinion on their relationship. She knows she has the control here because you accept this, so it’s reasonable that she would expect her partner to be invited and included in your life.
She is an enabler, like it or not. If you cave in and invite him and he makes a scene, what do you think will happen? Do you think it will be the sixteenth wake up call that finally kicks in? Or are you realistic, and can you accept that she would probably make excuses for him and expect you to be okay with it?
It is okay to have boundaries. Deep down she knows your boundaries are reasonable, and because of him. But sadly you are likely right, this could be the end of your friendship. I imagine she’ll be embarrassed and angry because she knows you’re right. If this is the what ends your friendship, sadly it probably needs to be.
Such posts usually get a number of very similar replies. Some will say that your partner should feel free to discuss anything with you. Others will say that certain conversations have consequences and raising opening a relationship well into an established monogamous one is something that should be approached with great caution. Personally it’s far to glib to say you shouldn’t be bothered by the question if your partner assures you they are happy with you if the answer to opening the relationship is no – I don’t want a partner who wants to be with other people. In OP’s case there’s definitely the complicating factor of his girlfriend having been off/distant for a month. I think many people will read this as her being into someone else – and seeking to open the relationship so she can also be with new person without cheating. Personally having someone in mind before you seek to open the relationship would basically be cheating to me – I doubt the relationship would continue. After 4 years together I wouldn’t have recommended communication before instantly ending things but I share OP’s reservations. I don’t know why people would believe that after your partner telling you they want to have sex with other people that you should be totally reassured if you say no.
I think you'll find it's not a lot of people's cup of tea, but at least you are an older adult. Not like a 20 year old with a 40 year old or something like that. Most people know what they want at your age.
No bb. This isn’t a he decides. This is a you have to set a standard and boundary for how men can treat you. He’s told you your not enough and he wants other women.
If my husband and father of my kids came to me and said this we would be getting a divorce – no if’s and or buts. That day he would be out of the house.
No 1: This boy has told you he wants other women, that you aren’t enough and he’s been thinking about it consistently. The relationship is not as important as his concept of a “college experience” and has told you that. He’s tried to get his cake and eat it too – and you have let him.
No 2: he is telling you men are studs and should be allowed to spread there seed (later this turns into: men cheat, it’s different when women cheat etc. ) without judgment. It sounds like he might even be asking you for it to be open only on his end.
You need to leave. For your own self respect. If you stay, it will end with you feeling demoralised and letting your standards slip. He’s already told you he wants other women and you stay. Next stop is him cheating and you staying. This train doesn’t go to any good stops babe. You lived you loved, but your time with him is now over. It wasn’t a waste, it was a beautiful teen romance that ended – as almost all do. YOU go and have YOUR college experience. Don’t let your BOYfriend stop you from meeting a MAN.
I think you need to think of older men as having a much higher bar set than younger men. The younger you are, the more you can blame on immaturity and lack of experience.
An older guy cannot and should not.
Why are you still with this person?!?
Also, follow up with him deleting it from his “deleted pic folder”. Whenever u can check any chat he might have sent it to.
I just went on a 10 day trip to South America for school while my husband happily stayed home with our 2 daughters. A secure man won’t care at all and encourage such a trip. Go on the trip.
I have cut off amazing people that I deeply miss and once considered dear friends because they were stuck in toxic cycles of bad relationships. It’s nude seeing someone you love so unwilling to love themselves, and at some point it’s more stress and damage than anything else. They spend so much energy defending their partner and become so unrecognizable when they’re around. It’s just hot to watch and harder to condone, and to me it was impossible to support.
This is your chance to let her know your boundaries. She knows he sucks, she filters what she says about him and refuses to discuss your opinion on their relationship. She knows she has the control here because you accept this, so it’s reasonable that she would expect her partner to be invited and included in your life.
She is an enabler, like it or not. If you cave in and invite him and he makes a scene, what do you think will happen? Do you think it will be the sixteenth wake up call that finally kicks in? Or are you realistic, and can you accept that she would probably make excuses for him and expect you to be okay with it?
It is okay to have boundaries. Deep down she knows your boundaries are reasonable, and because of him. But sadly you are likely right, this could be the end of your friendship. I imagine she’ll be embarrassed and angry because she knows you’re right. If this is the what ends your friendship, sadly it probably needs to be.
He looked surprised but he smiled when he said it.