You hit the nail on the head with naive which is what I think you are in this case in addition to being defensive which tells me this issue is personal.
You should also read more carefully as I did not tell OP anything as definitive as she “torpedoed “ her marriage but simply that she has planted a seed which could grow into something more serious and detrimental for her relationship. I stand by that and would tell anyone the same. You don’t ever want to make your partner feel like you have a longing for anyone else. It’s naive to think that doesn’t have an impact on the way they perceive you or your relationship even if they trust you completely.
I would never do that to my girlfriend, I’ve done a lot of fucked up things in my life but jesus to sleep with another woman while you’re in a relationship? That’s low.
If my girlfriend was in poor physical health I wouldn’t have sex period, and yes man I get how frustrating it can be without having sex for a long period of time. But dude just get a flesh light, or a penis vibrator.
You’re gonna crush that poor lady you claim to love. How ironic..
They never want to reflect on their bad behaviour. Sometimes closure isn’t talking to the person who lied and cheated on you, it’s accepting that they are scum and moving on with your life without looking back. You can do it.
It is not common in the US and is completely unnecessary. A lid won't make the situation better, especially because he expects her to do it too.
Tissues with snot and rotten food all in a garbage can don't cause health issues. Human waste not only smells horrible but can cause serious illness. Again……..this is completely unnecessary and easily solved by him simply flushing. It will take time to get used to it BUT it's much more hygienic and easier.
That is a great way to put it, thank you. I only started to feel bad bc he’s admitted to the things he’s done and supposedly is changing but that’s only been 3 weeks.
She had been blacked for sure
You hit the nail on the head with naive which is what I think you are in this case in addition to being defensive which tells me this issue is personal.
You should also read more carefully as I did not tell OP anything as definitive as she “torpedoed “ her marriage but simply that she has planted a seed which could grow into something more serious and detrimental for her relationship. I stand by that and would tell anyone the same. You don’t ever want to make your partner feel like you have a longing for anyone else. It’s naive to think that doesn’t have an impact on the way they perceive you or your relationship even if they trust you completely.
I would never do that to my girlfriend, I’ve done a lot of fucked up things in my life but jesus to sleep with another woman while you’re in a relationship? That’s low.
If my girlfriend was in poor physical health I wouldn’t have sex period, and yes man I get how frustrating it can be without having sex for a long period of time. But dude just get a flesh light, or a penis vibrator.
You’re gonna crush that poor lady you claim to love. How ironic..
They never want to reflect on their bad behaviour. Sometimes closure isn’t talking to the person who lied and cheated on you, it’s accepting that they are scum and moving on with your life without looking back. You can do it.
It is not common in the US and is completely unnecessary. A lid won't make the situation better, especially because he expects her to do it too.
Tissues with snot and rotten food all in a garbage can don't cause health issues. Human waste not only smells horrible but can cause serious illness. Again……..this is completely unnecessary and easily solved by him simply flushing. It will take time to get used to it BUT it's much more hygienic and easier.
Him changing is much easier than her changing.
That is a great way to put it, thank you. I only started to feel bad bc he’s admitted to the things he’s done and supposedly is changing but that’s only been 3 weeks.