You could try a fake out. When you see her, say “I know you cheated, whether I stay will depend on how honest you are right now”. If she questions it, drop that guys name.
Your husband put your whole family in danger. What if someone comes to collect? Threatening to harm family members goes much further than threatening to harm the target. Your children could be collateral.
Is it likely that a thug will show up to your home preparing to kill someone? No, but it's possible. You also don't know what actually happened. He could have pissed someone off more than he's letting on.
You need to take the kids and leave, at least until the threats stop. His cheating isn't the biggest issue right now. You can't trust him to keep the family safe anymore.
Yes you did the right thing! If his friends are able to encourage him to reactivate his dating app! Then yes! He will do it again when you piss him off! I’m proud of you!
You do you,
But I've just realised how delightfully relaxing this sounds.
Ffs what are you his Mother? Boy bye
You could try a fake out. When you see her, say “I know you cheated, whether I stay will depend on how honest you are right now”. If she questions it, drop that guys name.
You told us that he's, kind, considerate and understanding and then described someone who is entitled, lazy and uncaring. Can't have it both ways.
Your husband put your whole family in danger. What if someone comes to collect? Threatening to harm family members goes much further than threatening to harm the target. Your children could be collateral.
Is it likely that a thug will show up to your home preparing to kill someone? No, but it's possible. You also don't know what actually happened. He could have pissed someone off more than he's letting on.
You need to take the kids and leave, at least until the threats stop. His cheating isn't the biggest issue right now. You can't trust him to keep the family safe anymore.
Yes you did the right thing! If his friends are able to encourage him to reactivate his dating app! Then yes! He will do it again when you piss him off! I’m proud of you!