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Yea he’s making the argument sound like I’m a freeloading roommate who doesn’t lift a finger but it’s not our situation at all. I only eat his food if he offers first bc I have a thing where I hate feeling like I’m overstepping at all.
Most rational take yet
“…I’m the only friend he has and […] if I wasn’t in his life, he’d have nothing to on-line for (which he’s told me before).”
Your “friend” is emotionally blackmailing you. They are 30 years old, which is more than enough time on this planet to accumulate more than one friend. They clearly want a codependent relationship with you (the weird “hypothetical” game) and it seems pretty obvious that you’re not up for that.
You’ve already put some boundaries out there – I think it’s time you enforce them a little more firmly. Tell them you need a break from them for a while. If you’re ok with being honest about it I think that would be the best approach. But if you’re not ready for that or are afraid of how they might react feel free to come up with another excuse – you have a really big project you were just given at work, a family emergency came up, etc. You just need some time. And then take that time completely without them – a few weeks or a month or however long it takes you to feel like you actually want to spend time with this person again.
And on the off chance that they decide to escalate and start messaging you about dark thoughts or suicidal ideation redirect them to professional resources – you are NOT their therapist, even if you do have professional expertise in that area. This person has invested a lot of effort into trying to make you feel responsible for their mental health and well-being, and that’s not your job. Unfortunately, that means that they may do something drastic when you withdraw – but that is their choice to make. Trying to reshape your life in order to prevent that from happening means putting yourself at the mercy of their wants and needs, and that’s not fair to yourself. Don’t make yourself smaller just because they’re not willing to put in the work to get better.
I feel that you aren't actually offering any advice here, you're just being rude.
Of course it is? lol
You should let her hang out with him by herself, it’s a great opportunity to build trust. What could go wrong?
Not really, why are you so hung up on gaming?
Florida is exotic?