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He's not going to pay you back. There is a reason for the age gap: he is taking advantage of you. Take it as a lesson learned and find someone your age who doesn't need to ask you for money. If you really need the money back, you will probably have to take him to court.
I replied to another comment here about this, but I have adhd. I absolutely get where you're coming from and know how stressful it is to be on time with the whole time blindness thing. This is why I have such strict rules for myself. If the alarm I set to remind me to start getting ready goes off, I start getting ready. There is no 'five more minutes' it happens now, or I know I won't make it in time. It's stressful, and there are days that I feel like my phone alarm runs my life, but I do it because I value other people's time.
I suspect that he's on the spectrum. He has issues with food, textures, and germs and has weird things he will tolerate because they're “his germs” and things he won't. I'm fine with it for the most part, but there are a lot of rules. I made an effort to try to respect them.
I've decided to end it in any case. I'm accepting other people's eccentricities to a point, but I need some consideration, too. I can't be with someone who refuses to meet me halfway on something so simple.
You and your husband have a huge and basic incompatibility and there is no way to compromise on this issue: he wants kids (now) and you don’t want them (ever).
I’m sorry but you two need to divorce and find people who want the same things that the other person wants.
If you have a baby because he wants you to do it, you will resent him AND THE BABY. This isn’t fair to either of you.
You also sound like you have some prior experience with eating disorders. Your hyper focus on weight and revulsion at the idea that you will gain weight speaks volumes.
You will gain weight while pregnant. It can take a while to lose it. Your mental health will suffer.
Please don’t think about it in terms of being selfish not to give him what he wants. Think of it in terms of the two of you wanting opposite things that no one should ever give in on. You’re not selfish, you’re being true to yourself.
Hopefully he can see this and understand. But even if he doesn’t, you two need to end your marriage before you make a huge mistake that will eventually split the two of you up anyway. Because I guarantee you that your marriage won’t last if you have kids you don’t actually want.
He's not going to pay you back. There is a reason for the age gap: he is taking advantage of you. Take it as a lesson learned and find someone your age who doesn't need to ask you for money. If you really need the money back, you will probably have to take him to court.
I replied to another comment here about this, but I have adhd. I absolutely get where you're coming from and know how stressful it is to be on time with the whole time blindness thing. This is why I have such strict rules for myself. If the alarm I set to remind me to start getting ready goes off, I start getting ready. There is no 'five more minutes' it happens now, or I know I won't make it in time. It's stressful, and there are days that I feel like my phone alarm runs my life, but I do it because I value other people's time.
I suspect that he's on the spectrum. He has issues with food, textures, and germs and has weird things he will tolerate because they're “his germs” and things he won't. I'm fine with it for the most part, but there are a lot of rules. I made an effort to try to respect them.
I've decided to end it in any case. I'm accepting other people's eccentricities to a point, but I need some consideration, too. I can't be with someone who refuses to meet me halfway on something so simple.
You're being naive. You're smarter than this
You and your husband have a huge and basic incompatibility and there is no way to compromise on this issue: he wants kids (now) and you don’t want them (ever).
I’m sorry but you two need to divorce and find people who want the same things that the other person wants.
If you have a baby because he wants you to do it, you will resent him AND THE BABY. This isn’t fair to either of you.
You also sound like you have some prior experience with eating disorders. Your hyper focus on weight and revulsion at the idea that you will gain weight speaks volumes.
You will gain weight while pregnant. It can take a while to lose it. Your mental health will suffer.
Please don’t think about it in terms of being selfish not to give him what he wants. Think of it in terms of the two of you wanting opposite things that no one should ever give in on. You’re not selfish, you’re being true to yourself.
Hopefully he can see this and understand. But even if he doesn’t, you two need to end your marriage before you make a huge mistake that will eventually split the two of you up anyway. Because I guarantee you that your marriage won’t last if you have kids you don’t actually want.