Be friendly and flirt. We can usually do the rest if we are interested. It’s hard to pursue if you are curt. Other than that we usually will find a reason to talk to you if we want to.
Be honest about them and tell someone your triggers when you get comfortable enough with them.
It’s up to them whether they can handle it or not. They can decide that much.
You’ve been through it. You know the things that lead up to it. Watch for those and leave if you don’t like what you see.
The reality is, people notice how you make them feel more than anything else. You make your husband feel loved and secure. You do that by the way you treat him, and that says a lot more about your character than you realize. It may not be a direct compliment from your point of view, but as humans, the way that others make us feel about ourselves is the number one reason we choose to be around those people. Your husband appreciates you seeing through his tactics to “push you away” and see him for who he truly is. This is actually a really sweet answer, just maybe not at face value.
You broke up with him, he gets to go to as many strip clubs as he wants. If you’d wanted to punish him by making him “behave” than you needed to stay with him.
Listen, you know what this is. This is you understanding you’re signing up to a lifetime of your partner not listening to you and ignoring your needs.
You asked for one simple thing and he couldn’t be bothered to deliver. I’m sorry. You’re not wrong to feel this way. This isn’t the man for you.
He was tired and didn't want to and you continued to coerce him. Of course he's going to have trouble finishing.
THIS
Be friendly and flirt. We can usually do the rest if we are interested. It’s hard to pursue if you are curt. Other than that we usually will find a reason to talk to you if we want to.
Be honest about them and tell someone your triggers when you get comfortable enough with them.
It’s up to them whether they can handle it or not. They can decide that much.
You’ve been through it. You know the things that lead up to it. Watch for those and leave if you don’t like what you see.
The reality is, people notice how you make them feel more than anything else. You make your husband feel loved and secure. You do that by the way you treat him, and that says a lot more about your character than you realize. It may not be a direct compliment from your point of view, but as humans, the way that others make us feel about ourselves is the number one reason we choose to be around those people. Your husband appreciates you seeing through his tactics to “push you away” and see him for who he truly is. This is actually a really sweet answer, just maybe not at face value.
You broke up with him, he gets to go to as many strip clubs as he wants. If you’d wanted to punish him by making him “behave” than you needed to stay with him.
Not every d!ckhead needs bringing to the light. OP just needs to grow a spine and drop the frenemy.
She sound immature AF still.
That's just basic knowledge that you don't act like that in mixed company. But especially not in front of your parents / family.
But you married that clown.
So, enjoy your circus.
Listen, you know what this is. This is you understanding you’re signing up to a lifetime of your partner not listening to you and ignoring your needs.
You asked for one simple thing and he couldn’t be bothered to deliver. I’m sorry. You’re not wrong to feel this way. This isn’t the man for you.
As someone your age and who knows a few morrmons, if he is committed to going, I would just break up.