Sounds like the love is gone–you are not paranoid, just clueless. And it's past time to worry, your relationship is functionally over. I'd encourage you to have an exit talk with her that is mostly about listening about why she is not communicating.
Alternatively, she's involved with someone else and wants you to get more than a hint. You have little to lose at this point, so ask her.
Drinking as a hobby would be say having a glass of nice bourbon on the weekend after going through the effort of finding a new one to try, and just enjoying like one glass. This sounds more like alcoholism.
I completely understand what you are saying. It is just surprising to me as she has always been willing to take in children in need. However I understand this isn’t what she signed up for. I still hope she comes around but I am going to consult with a lawyer tomorrow.
Sounds like the love is gone–you are not paranoid, just clueless. And it's past time to worry, your relationship is functionally over. I'd encourage you to have an exit talk with her that is mostly about listening about why she is not communicating.
Alternatively, she's involved with someone else and wants you to get more than a hint. You have little to lose at this point, so ask her.
He wants sex to be spontaneous and fun
And it will be. On wednesdays and sundays or whatever.
I don't think he wants to fix this, he's fine with how it is.
Drinking as a hobby would be say having a glass of nice bourbon on the weekend after going through the effort of finding a new one to try, and just enjoying like one glass. This sounds more like alcoholism.
Then you realize that one can rinse their vulva without taking a shower?
I completely understand what you are saying. It is just surprising to me as she has always been willing to take in children in need. However I understand this isn’t what she signed up for. I still hope she comes around but I am going to consult with a lawyer tomorrow.
This is your body, so taking his obviously terrible reassurance is wholly on you.
His pull out game is clearly as strong as you ovulation tracking.
Wear condoms, go on birth control, abstain, or start saving for your new baby.
The IUD still seems like the worse option since it gave you serious medical complications.
So be responsible for yourself and stop looking to share blame – you make the choices, not him.
Mother's baby, fathers maybe…so support yourself, not wait for support from him.