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1. Lady I don't know you enough to really care to be mad..why are you so crazy? You dont want advice,. you want people to agree with you…..hey thanks though for clearing up exactly what caused this…ps you cant hang up in someones face that turned off the video portion of a call. have a good one lady, your particular brand of crazy is something I dont want any part of either.

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2. Hot to say without knowing how the reletionship was during it was active.

   Once you two broke up, it changes the texture of everything and opens the door for a lot of negative behavior. For example, you broke no contact after she broke it off with you. That could trigger frustration on her end.

   Anyways, that's besides the point.

   I would say she has toxic tendencies for sure:

   This is a major issue for yourself:

   I am not listing all of my ex's mistakes because I am hurt and want to portray her negatively. I don't care about any other mistakes she may have made (I accept them!) and I never came here for advice about them.

   You're basically saying you gave her the green light to walk over you. Anything negative done, you immediately forgive. There comes a point where you gave too many chances. She regularly does behaviors that hurts you and you just tolerate, approve and accept it.

   Which is what resulted in this:

   I know I haven't been able to represent everything that hurt and bothered me about how she acted towards me on many occasions.

   Its a routine thing for you to be hurt as a result of your reletionship. That is not love. That is toxic.

   This is a major flaw of hers:

   You know me, just because I speak in an aggressive tone doesn't mean I'm being aggressive or mad at you.

   She is using aggression to relay her thoughts. Instead of using productive points that help the conversation, she speaks aggressively in hopes for you to back down and accept her POV. Trying to make you surrender in a sense.

   This is another issue for you:

   Later, when I shared this interaction with a female acquaintance of mine, she said that my ex was abusive towards me. I'm not sure if that's true or not.

   You keep defending her at all costs. You say 'yes, she is problematic' but still choose to ignore it. You're playing into your own delusion, blind to how bad your reletionship actually is.

   Healthy relationships are nothing like this. Where you have this whole list of shit that has created problems and hurt people.

   I highly suggest you listen to your friend. I know you want to see the good in people, but you cannot ignore the bad. The bad is what makes the greatest difference in a reletionship.

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3. Tell him that his actions and especially his lying to you, was really hurtful, and you need to take a break for a while. And then take as much time as you need and if/when you’re ready, go back to your friendship. If you really want to be petty, when you let him know that you are taking a break, you can say something along the lines of “I didn’t realize our 12 year friendship meant so little to you. So I just need to reevaluate some of my relationships.”

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4. I hope for your sake that your relationship is that strong. There are many stories here where these things went south quickly. It’s hot to have sex without emotional connection. Especially for most women and these things based on what I’ve read here tend to get sticky. I wish you luck. Having never experienced a relationship like yours all I can say is set some boundaries and don’t let anything slip

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5. I thought we’ve been told that not saying no isn’t the same thing as saying yes

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6. His expectations and behavior is unacceptable. Your daughter is very young right now, but kids pick up on way more than you think. Do you really want your daughter to be raised to think it is okay to be treated like this by a man? You say you don't want her to grow up in a broken household, but this is already broken. Coming from a person whose parents decided to stay together for their kids' sake even though my father was actively cheating on my mother for years, trust me. It is better to separate as amicably as possible and show your daughter how she (and you) deserve to be treated, rather than her being taught that is an aspect of a relationship that she should just accept.

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7. 6 whole weeks? Dude! When you are older you’ll realize that’s the blink of an eye. Your dignity and sanity is worth a lot more than a few more weeks with this girl. She’s strung you along and is now looking to monkey branch to the NEXT guy. I’ll bet this girl has NEVER been single and just has guys around as accessories. She monkey branched to YOU after all.

   Seriously, make it easy for her. Drop her like the bad habit she is.

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