It's more that we have different financial goals. I want to save for retirement and she wants to spend it on the kids to get cars and houses for them. I would not be against that if we had plenty of money but we don't.
Do you love yourself? It sounds like with the amount of disrespect, from her that you take, you don't. Is this some type of thing where neither of you can afford to live! alone?
What? How are you supposed to do that with a vaginal birth?
It's more that we have different financial goals. I want to save for retirement and she wants to spend it on the kids to get cars and houses for them. I would not be against that if we had plenty of money but we don't.
Give yourself the respect you deserve since he failed at doing so.
I love her very much and I hope she loves me…
Do you love yourself? It sounds like with the amount of disrespect, from her that you take, you don't. Is this some type of thing where neither of you can afford to live! alone?
Yes but it won't get a good reaction from him.
You're only 21, you don't need to settle for this.
8 months. He cheated. He should be your ex boyfriend.