Don’t be afraid to stand up to her when she’s aggravated. Sometimes I do that to shut people down so they won’t bother me. Less as I’m older.
I would be kind and direct I would say I saw the video it made me uncomfortable. Please take it down. And then if she starts blustering or getting angry, I would stop earth and say there’s no reason to get angry. I’m just telling you I saw your video it made me uncomfortable. Please take it down. We’re in a relationship.
I think the approach to write to her is good, or maybe just show her this post since you have already written it. She knows something is wrong, she feels that you are hurt, and she wants to help you!
There where two persons you trusted, and one turned out to be a monster. But the other one is your mother! She will not break your trust, she will do her best to catch you, she so wants to be there for you. Yes, she will have problems understanding that he did that – like you had. Because it is so awful! Please just show her your post, send her the link, and wait until she read it and calls you.
It sounds like you have a deep and powerful connection with Bauer, but it's understandable to feel hesitant about reconnecting with him given your history. You are in a tough situation, and it can be difficult to know what to do. Here are some thoughts to consider:
Be honest with yourself about your intentions. Do you want to reconnect with Bauer as friends, or are you hoping to rekindle your romantic relationship? If it's the latter, be prepared for the possibility that he may not feel the same way, or that he may not be interested in pursuing a long-distance relationship.
Consider the practicalities. Moving across the country is a big decision, and it's important to think about the logistics involved. Are you ready to leave your current life behind and start over in a new place? Will your job or career allow you to make such a move? Will you be able to afford the cost of living in the new location?
Communicate openly and honestly with Bauer. If you do decide to reach out to him, be clear about your intentions and feelings. Don't play games or try to manipulate the situation. Be respectful of his boundaries, and don't pressure him into anything he's not comfortable with.
Be prepared for the possibility of rejection. As much as you may want things to work out with Bauer, there's always a chance that he may not feel the same way. If that happens, try not to take it personally. Sometimes, even the most beautiful connections aren't meant to last.
Remember that you are in control of your own happiness. While it's natural to want to be with someone you love, you should never sacrifice your own well-being and happiness for the sake of a relationship. If things don't work out with Bauer, it's important to remember that you can still have a fulfilling and meaningful life on your own.
Ultimately, the decision to reconnect with Bauer is yours alone to make. Just be sure to take your time, be honest with yourself and him, and be prepared for whatever outcome may arise. Good luck!
Sounds like she is a crazy bitch. Do yourself a big favor and say bye!
Don’t be afraid to stand up to her when she’s aggravated. Sometimes I do that to shut people down so they won’t bother me. Less as I’m older.
I would be kind and direct I would say I saw the video it made me uncomfortable. Please take it down. And then if she starts blustering or getting angry, I would stop earth and say there’s no reason to get angry. I’m just telling you I saw your video it made me uncomfortable. Please take it down. We’re in a relationship.
The kicker is, she wanted the dogs originally! The dogs are half the age of their relationship
Yeah maybe i could have handled the exit better but i was just so pissed at her behaviour and this has not been the first time she’s done this
I think the approach to write to her is good, or maybe just show her this post since you have already written it. She knows something is wrong, she feels that you are hurt, and she wants to help you!
There where two persons you trusted, and one turned out to be a monster. But the other one is your mother! She will not break your trust, she will do her best to catch you, she so wants to be there for you. Yes, she will have problems understanding that he did that – like you had. Because it is so awful! Please just show her your post, send her the link, and wait until she read it and calls you.
I don't care what anyone says, I liked this one.
It's the catflap for me.
Also the late night noodles.
It sounds like you have a deep and powerful connection with Bauer, but it's understandable to feel hesitant about reconnecting with him given your history. You are in a tough situation, and it can be difficult to know what to do. Here are some thoughts to consider:
Be honest with yourself about your intentions. Do you want to reconnect with Bauer as friends, or are you hoping to rekindle your romantic relationship? If it's the latter, be prepared for the possibility that he may not feel the same way, or that he may not be interested in pursuing a long-distance relationship.
Consider the practicalities. Moving across the country is a big decision, and it's important to think about the logistics involved. Are you ready to leave your current life behind and start over in a new place? Will your job or career allow you to make such a move? Will you be able to afford the cost of living in the new location?
Communicate openly and honestly with Bauer. If you do decide to reach out to him, be clear about your intentions and feelings. Don't play games or try to manipulate the situation. Be respectful of his boundaries, and don't pressure him into anything he's not comfortable with.
Be prepared for the possibility of rejection. As much as you may want things to work out with Bauer, there's always a chance that he may not feel the same way. If that happens, try not to take it personally. Sometimes, even the most beautiful connections aren't meant to last.
Remember that you are in control of your own happiness. While it's natural to want to be with someone you love, you should never sacrifice your own well-being and happiness for the sake of a relationship. If things don't work out with Bauer, it's important to remember that you can still have a fulfilling and meaningful life on your own.
Ultimately, the decision to reconnect with Bauer is yours alone to make. Just be sure to take your time, be honest with yourself and him, and be prepared for whatever outcome may arise. Good luck!