It’s not you, it’s him. Pay no attention of how he acts. This could be a blessing because you almost settled for a future with this guy. He probably thought about being single and F-ing around for awhile in your relationship and now that the breakup happened, he posted a status to send out feelers for any interested females out there (huge turnoff if you ask me). If he ever unblocks you or reaches out, it means he’s had no luck and he wants to try again- he left so easily do NOT let him back in. Good riddance girl.
If you are unhappy, you should leave. If she is angry and aggressive and treats you poorly, you should leave. People change over time. The girl you met at 15 is gone, stop looking for her. Ypu need to accept that she is who she is now. The fact you have wasted years in an unhappy relationship doesn't mean you should keep wasting more time. That is the sunk-cost fallacy. You are young, you will find other partners.
Of course, you can't control your dreams. Had dreams about waitresses, celebrities, and coworkers. You just can't control it. Just don't let it eat you up.
He either has OCD issues wrapped into control issues and/or he is financially abusing you. You need to get into couples counseling with a therapist that specializes in financial issues or OCD or whatever. The therapist will then tell you both where to go from there.
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It’s not you, it’s him. Pay no attention of how he acts. This could be a blessing because you almost settled for a future with this guy. He probably thought about being single and F-ing around for awhile in your relationship and now that the breakup happened, he posted a status to send out feelers for any interested females out there (huge turnoff if you ask me). If he ever unblocks you or reaches out, it means he’s had no luck and he wants to try again- he left so easily do NOT let him back in. Good riddance girl.
If you are unhappy, you should leave. If she is angry and aggressive and treats you poorly, you should leave. People change over time. The girl you met at 15 is gone, stop looking for her. Ypu need to accept that she is who she is now. The fact you have wasted years in an unhappy relationship doesn't mean you should keep wasting more time. That is the sunk-cost fallacy. You are young, you will find other partners.
Of course, you can't control your dreams. Had dreams about waitresses, celebrities, and coworkers. You just can't control it. Just don't let it eat you up.
He either has OCD issues wrapped into control issues and/or he is financially abusing you. You need to get into couples counseling with a therapist that specializes in financial issues or OCD or whatever. The therapist will then tell you both where to go from there.