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  1. This is the best advice. I was in a similar situation, except it was the girl's boyfriend my ex was having at minimum an emotional affair with who reached out to me on Instagram. At the time I brought it up calmly to my then boyfriend and I gave him the benefit of the doubt. He totally denied it, pretended to be horrified, cried in disgust. However, in the weeks following my exchange with the concerned boyfriend, it slowly became clear that it was not the allegation that shook him, it was that it was one of the first times in almost a decade long relationship that one of his many deceptions started to unravel (and that there were people with enough decency to tell me the truth because I was getting manipulated hardcore). Others can sometimes sense when someone is ready to hear unpleasant truths, especially if you've been friends for years. This may not be the situation, but chances are if one member of a friend group is willing to cover affairs, lies, cheating, it will be endemic to their approach to friendship and it can take a big shakeup like their breakup to motivate turning the whole system upside down. Hopefully this story has been misconstrued from his end, but no matter what, you'll feel better to get it out of your head. It feels good to be on solid ground, even if it requires the rug to get pulled out from under you.

  2. Your intentions were pure, and it really isn’t surprising (if he’s on the spectrum) that you had that misunderstanding since it sounds like it was early in your relationship. Perhaps you should give him some time and then put the ball back in his court. You could say something like, “My family really appreciates all that you did to learn our language and we would love to share it with you. We are so sorry for not understanding how important this was to you and we want to make things right.” Perhaps he will be more ready to talk given a bit of time.

  3. If it feels like abuse to you, then it could be. A gentle slap in addition to harsh words like that could be construed as a veiled threat – that he will do worse if you continue to “disrespect” him.

    Thats conjecture on my part, but the point is that you're right to take it seriously. It sounds like you both need to work on your communication in any case, given that you had a heated argument that led to this scenario.

  4. I did check my dna. A large chunk came up as Jewish and if you would educate yourself you would find that Native American and Jewish dna overlap a lot of the time because of migration patterns. It’s all the same basically.

    So is it a kink if it brings me closer to my culture?? I think need to tap into my gfs white guilt.

  5. Considering what you described yes..idk or move out? You're rushing and I'm unsure if this is an affect of your BPD

  6. I wouldn't plan a party I would just go off on my own. Go to a movie by my self, dinner by my self. Just go silent for the day. If she asks why say “You never plan anything so I just did my own thing.”

    Match you partners energy, if you shower her with attention and love and she doesn't return it, what do you get out of the relationship?

  7. Well not off to a great start if it's only been a month. When my wife and I were in 1 month of dating, I pretty much engaged with her all the time. “headspace” may just seem like either he's not comfortable talking about what's going on or it's just bullshit and he's trying to end it.

  8. He's not likely to change his behavior. You're not a new girlfriend so he's showing you who he plans to be. There's a show called 'I Love a Mama's Boy' and while your situation may not be as extreme, you have to sit and be honest with yourself if he would ever make you a priority over his mother.

    I would never be in a relationship where I'm questioning where I stand or feel like I need to compete for attention. Why couldn't he have planned something for all three of you? Because he didn't want to. He let his mother have her way because it's easier.

  9. I'd just like to say that it's fine that he doesn't want the polyamory he was always gonna be my husband and if he said no I was always going to respect that

    It really doesn't matter. You told him that because life has been difficult, maybe you guys should start sleeping with other people. That probably ruined any confidence he had in himself and any security in the relationship. You pretty much just said you'll settle for him, but really you'd have liked to sleep with other people.

    If you two have always been in a monogamous relationship, then why in the world would you suddenly think this was a good idea?

    It really doesn't appear as if you ever stopped and thought about how even merely suggesting this would make him feel and now you are holding words (that were cruel but almost understandable given the situation) he said out of hurt and betrayal against him and wondering how you will ever forgive him, how will you ever feel comfortable again and giving zero thought on how you can ever make him feel comfortable again or earn his forgiveness.

    You are the one that screwed up here, not him.

  10. But that's not what you said happened….. Women were not going out of their way to add him to the group. One woman just like you did went on the group to look for him. She literally did what you were doing just a few weeks before you happened to meet him?

    Would it have mattered if you had to scroll three years in the past to find him? It was already before you met.

    P.s. Those sites are generally garbage

  11. Sounds like the two of you need to sit down and work out a budget and probably look into premarital counseling.

    While your point of view is practical and makes financial sense in isolation, it may not be fair to look at it in a vacuum.

    While she may not be contributing much now, if she is going to be a medical doctor in the US most likely her income will quickly outstrip yours and if you guys have combined finances that income could quickly outpace the downpayment in a condo.

    You have to look at the whole financial picture.

    You have been working and have properties so you have premarital assets. She hasn't because of school but now has a larger prospective income than yours. From a financial perspective you could try to shield your premarital assets, but her income will be marital property because she is earning it after the two of you got married so from that perspective she may have a point.

    I don't think you are “inherently selfish,” but I have had roommates who nickel and dimed me and wanted to split a grocery bill by the amount each of us used each item purchased and it was exhausting.

    Maybe that's what she was trying to communicate?

    Many younger people do feel that a prenup or other planning is expecting the marriage to fail and it's not exactly romantic.

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