From my experience, it's vital he tries to educate himself about autism and is eager to learn from you as well.
So he can do some research, and you can explain to him your difficulties to understand his tone in certain situations. Ask him to communicate clearly. And if a situation is unclear to you, ask him right away.
Communication is vital in any relationship, and even more in a ND/NT relationship. And it shouldn't be all on you. He has to work on his communication to meet your needs.
If this relationship doesn't work out (as a worst case scenario), don't let it bring you down. Sometimes relationships aren't working for tons of reasons. But there are other people and relationships that might be different.
(Experience: Happily married to a man who found out about being on the spectrum a few years ago)
Sorry. I was ambitious. Do YOU have a current? If he is cheating, unless you can send her proof, it's better to just drop him. Getting with him only affects you as far as you let it.
You’re a good person and want to believe that he is as well. Every time you tell him you’re leaving, and don’t, you teach him that he doesn’t have to change. At this point, unfortunately, only stay if you’re willing to keep him the way he is. Love is not enough.
Obsessive behavior is not the same as caring about someone.
From my experience, it's vital he tries to educate himself about autism and is eager to learn from you as well.
So he can do some research, and you can explain to him your difficulties to understand his tone in certain situations. Ask him to communicate clearly. And if a situation is unclear to you, ask him right away.
Communication is vital in any relationship, and even more in a ND/NT relationship. And it shouldn't be all on you. He has to work on his communication to meet your needs.
If this relationship doesn't work out (as a worst case scenario), don't let it bring you down. Sometimes relationships aren't working for tons of reasons. But there are other people and relationships that might be different.
(Experience: Happily married to a man who found out about being on the spectrum a few years ago)
Sorry. I was ambitious. Do YOU have a current? If he is cheating, unless you can send her proof, it's better to just drop him. Getting with him only affects you as far as you let it.
You’re a good person and want to believe that he is as well. Every time you tell him you’re leaving, and don’t, you teach him that he doesn’t have to change. At this point, unfortunately, only stay if you’re willing to keep him the way he is. Love is not enough.