It is quite common for boys to do that. But what makes the difference is perhaps the circumstances around it.
For example, if he's using pictures of you for it, I wouldn't find that offensive at all.
And if he's masturbating to porn, well… there are women out there that do not want a partner to be like that. And in general, it's okay to set certain standards. Though to keep in mind it is likely you'll encounter it with many more men in the future if that is a dealbreaker.
Other than that… all you can do is communicate with him about how it makes you feel.
I have said something around that like “how come we haven't had sex in awhile” and that led to us talking about new things I could do to get her in the mood, but even when I do those things no sex.
You’ve tried to tell her and she’s not changing her behavior, there’s no other option. You can’t change her if she’s not listening to you.
I'll talk to him but I won't steer him away from his religion. it's not my plan to ruin his relationship with the religion.
It is quite common for boys to do that. But what makes the difference is perhaps the circumstances around it.
For example, if he's using pictures of you for it, I wouldn't find that offensive at all.
And if he's masturbating to porn, well… there are women out there that do not want a partner to be like that. And in general, it's okay to set certain standards. Though to keep in mind it is likely you'll encounter it with many more men in the future if that is a dealbreaker.
Other than that… all you can do is communicate with him about how it makes you feel.
I have said something around that like “how come we haven't had sex in awhile” and that led to us talking about new things I could do to get her in the mood, but even when I do those things no sex.