I don't know. But that is fully possible. He has said he struggles with expressing his emotions. But… I don't know if that is just an excuse to be vague, or if it is a lack of emotional maturity, OR if it is actually a real struggle.
He does struggle in many social settings. He is the shy, “nerdy” type that loves computers and fandoms and collects miniatures. He is definitely not the player-type, which makes his behavior so strange. He keeps saying he has never been in a relationship (because of this shyness), and that he can't talk to girls. Hence I took it upon myself to be very clear in my communication and tell him what I want, so that he would feel more comfortable expressing himself and feeling reassured. And that why I find it so weird that he is so vague and avoidant in return.
Hey Iām going
For the streets
I don't know. But that is fully possible. He has said he struggles with expressing his emotions. But… I don't know if that is just an excuse to be vague, or if it is a lack of emotional maturity, OR if it is actually a real struggle.
He does struggle in many social settings. He is the shy, “nerdy” type that loves computers and fandoms and collects miniatures. He is definitely not the player-type, which makes his behavior so strange. He keeps saying he has never been in a relationship (because of this shyness), and that he can't talk to girls. Hence I took it upon myself to be very clear in my communication and tell him what I want, so that he would feel more comfortable expressing himself and feeling reassured. And that why I find it so weird that he is so vague and avoidant in return.
Yea Iām thinking no contact might be best.