if the cons outweigh the pros, its probably time to break it off. you could always try talking to her, maybe she can give you some more space so you feel less drained. but remember you guys are so young, friends and girlfriends will come and go, there are hundreds of experiences out there waiting for you, break ups included. I thought the person I dated at 15 was the one for me, turns out I was very wrong lol
Do you have a therapist? Because it sounds like that is something that could really benefit you. I can understand why your co-worker would worry given that response.
You are allowed to not want hard pictures of yourself existing. That is a reasonable boundary to have. You need to learn to enforce your own boundaries – no-one else can do it for you.
My usual rule for things like this is if they offer twice take em up on it. I would never expect someone to pay me for something like this.
if the cons outweigh the pros, its probably time to break it off. you could always try talking to her, maybe she can give you some more space so you feel less drained. but remember you guys are so young, friends and girlfriends will come and go, there are hundreds of experiences out there waiting for you, break ups included. I thought the person I dated at 15 was the one for me, turns out I was very wrong lol
I’m so sorry that happened to you. I hope you’ve gotten any help or support you need.
Do you have a therapist? Because it sounds like that is something that could really benefit you. I can understand why your co-worker would worry given that response.
You are allowed to not want hard pictures of yourself existing. That is a reasonable boundary to have. You need to learn to enforce your own boundaries – no-one else can do it for you.
There are 2 reasons why an wx would refuse to return belongings and they are to be petty and to see them again. He's not over her.