From the way he expresses himself, no men has good intentions or wants to see me as just a friend or whatever.
This is himself he is talking about – he is incapable of seeing a woman as anything other than a sexual prospect. He doesn't see women as friends, or colleagues, or even actual people, and since he is incapable of it, he assumes every other man does as well.
I've told him several times, but he will always upgrade whatever I ask for. I want to take things slow and I don't want to feel like I have to fall head over heels right away. It's hard because I don't want to hurt him either, he's a great guy.
You are correct, I am still trying to work on my people pleasing problem, it comes from childhood trauma. I asked him the same and he said he wouldn't mind at all
Yeah, when I drink I have fun but with him it goes good then it gets shit when too much is involved. Is it also insecurity??? He has shown insecurities throughout our relationship
She's already decided that she wants to sleep with someone else, and used the fight that you had to further what she wants. Even if you don't agree to the break, I'm thinking she's going to cheat on you. It's petty but I'm guessing in her mind if it's “a break” then it's not cheating and she isn't as bad as a cheater. You need to decide if you're willing to continue the relationship, regardless of cheating/break. Or you can always agree and do it with the understanding that you'll be sleeping with other people as well, and it's ok “cause you still love her” but it honestly sounds like the beginning of the end of your relationship
When my dad would come visit me in my studio apartment or when I would visit him at his studio, we'd sleep in the same bed. Totally not weird at all. Usually I'd put pillows in between us.
They were in college and OP slept with over 100 guys. That kinda thing gets around.
From the way he expresses himself, no men has good intentions or wants to see me as just a friend or whatever.
This is himself he is talking about – he is incapable of seeing a woman as anything other than a sexual prospect. He doesn't see women as friends, or colleagues, or even actual people, and since he is incapable of it, he assumes every other man does as well.
I've told him several times, but he will always upgrade whatever I ask for. I want to take things slow and I don't want to feel like I have to fall head over heels right away. It's hard because I don't want to hurt him either, he's a great guy.
Rich people problems smh
You are correct, I am still trying to work on my people pleasing problem, it comes from childhood trauma. I asked him the same and he said he wouldn't mind at all
Yeah, when I drink I have fun but with him it goes good then it gets shit when too much is involved. Is it also insecurity??? He has shown insecurities throughout our relationship
She's already decided that she wants to sleep with someone else, and used the fight that you had to further what she wants. Even if you don't agree to the break, I'm thinking she's going to cheat on you. It's petty but I'm guessing in her mind if it's “a break” then it's not cheating and she isn't as bad as a cheater. You need to decide if you're willing to continue the relationship, regardless of cheating/break. Or you can always agree and do it with the understanding that you'll be sleeping with other people as well, and it's ok “cause you still love her” but it honestly sounds like the beginning of the end of your relationship
Block his ass. And respect yourself, mother fucker gave you chlamydia
When my dad would come visit me in my studio apartment or when I would visit him at his studio, we'd sleep in the same bed. Totally not weird at all. Usually I'd put pillows in between us.
Could’ve been delivered better, but regardless, thanks for your opinion.