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You know how in airplanes emergency brief they tell you to first put your oxygen mask before helping others? This is the same, he is sick and needs professional help. We could even excuse his lying due to addiction being an illness, BUT you have to put your oxygen mask first.
Secure your finances, your mental health, have a safe space (moving out was a good choice). Then and only then you can start to think if your love for him is worth helping him through his addiction or not.
In all honesty, if it’s been a few years and he didn’t think to ask you for help I’d wonder if that relationship was solid to begin with. If I were to feel any kind of addiction or did something I’m ashamed of, sooner or later I would ask my partner for help
You didn’t ask me the question, but ima put in my two cents anyway. Happiness and stability aren’t the right terms, as in so many of these situations (including this one) the questioning party is actively unhappy, and often the stability isn’t there either unless you just count “I have a boyfriend” as stability. It’s partly an ego/status thing, especially for women—being partnered is considered vital to how valuable you are in general, even if your partner sucks. People don’t know how to entertain themselves so they’d rather spend time with someone else, even if that time is unpleasant. Etc etc
You know how in airplanes emergency brief they tell you to first put your oxygen mask before helping others? This is the same, he is sick and needs professional help. We could even excuse his lying due to addiction being an illness, BUT you have to put your oxygen mask first.
Secure your finances, your mental health, have a safe space (moving out was a good choice). Then and only then you can start to think if your love for him is worth helping him through his addiction or not.
In all honesty, if it’s been a few years and he didn’t think to ask you for help I’d wonder if that relationship was solid to begin with. If I were to feel any kind of addiction or did something I’m ashamed of, sooner or later I would ask my partner for help
You didn’t ask me the question, but ima put in my two cents anyway. Happiness and stability aren’t the right terms, as in so many of these situations (including this one) the questioning party is actively unhappy, and often the stability isn’t there either unless you just count “I have a boyfriend” as stability. It’s partly an ego/status thing, especially for women—being partnered is considered vital to how valuable you are in general, even if your partner sucks. People don’t know how to entertain themselves so they’d rather spend time with someone else, even if that time is unpleasant. Etc etc