Then you’ve done what you can. It takes two to make a relationship work and she isn’t interested in taking any responsibility or making any changes. Sounds like it’s just not a good fit.
Talk to an attorney and make an exit plan. Life is too short to be miserable.
That said, would recommend that you pursue individual therapy so you can work on yourself and not end up in a similar situation again.
Sure. Except that OP has admitted to having trauma around it after her brother got assaulted one night.
Or did you skip that part too?
I literally just asked a question. Like what ? Lol
I'll say this, if you're enduring this, you might as well break it off now because this isn't a short-term thing, it's a forever thing.
And do you really want to spend the rest of your life 'enduring' anything?
Then you’ve done what you can. It takes two to make a relationship work and she isn’t interested in taking any responsibility or making any changes. Sounds like it’s just not a good fit.
Talk to an attorney and make an exit plan. Life is too short to be miserable.
That said, would recommend that you pursue individual therapy so you can work on yourself and not end up in a similar situation again.
Life's too short to on-line with someone's who's constantly nagging you, you did well