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Yeah, and these things illustrate that he’s not mature enough for a women that’s 29yo or even to be in a relationship at all.
OP. Relax. It’s normal to have attractions to people. Keep your drinking to a minimum, or don’t drink at all, and if you feel like you “can’t control” yourself then avoid her the best you can. I know avoiding her all together may be impossible but like I said, avoid her THE BEST YOU CAN. This, like everything, will pass.
Girl you told everyone about your relationship to prove why OP is wrong. And i told you why i think you’re wrong! Also, yeah, men dont change and if he was like that with all of his exes u most likely will not be an exception. As if liking other girls pics is some kind of horrible thing anyway, im just saying. Maybe he doesnt like them but i bet he still looks and stares because, news flash, we all do it.
You did all you can. You expressed your concern and preference.
That's the end of what you can do. She doesn't want to change so isn't going to.
Now it's up to you to determine if this is a deal breaker for you or not and either end the relationship or drop the subject.
Nagging and starting arguments about it will help nothing and only damage the relationship so you have to legitimately think about if someone smoking is something you just can't deal with in a relationship or is it something you can put up with.
Also don't do something weird like give an ultimatum. It's not going to make her stop if she doesn't want to it's only going to lead to her walking away or just hiding the fact that she smokes from you as best as possible but either way if it gets to that the relationship is already over cause ultimatums are poison to relationships
Why would that make you insecure? Do you normally feel insecure going in to a relationship if you don't know who your new partner has slept with before you? ?
She is totally willing to do that. I am the one who shut down sexually in response to the fact that we couldn't have penetrative sex. It is my job to get out of avoidance.
We lasted so long together because we have an incredible emotional bond and chemistry.
Being that we don’t on-line together I didn’t think it was an issue I’m not choosing Porn over actual intimacy infact I’m about to inform her that I will stop and no there is no addiction I just can’t be intimate with her sometimes when the occasion arrives because of life ?
Ik you’re being sarcastic but yeah paternity fraud should be a crime, because it’s actually fraud. A man is paying money to raise a child that’s not his when he thought it was (and would only agree to pay for it knowing it was his). So yeah, it’s fraud and coercion and should be a crime, punished with heavy fines.
Yes, it's funny, I was worried about him liking me less when he found out about my hobby (and I suppose that is part of what happened), but I actually like him a lot less for his reaction, too.
Buying groceries and working a job are not apologizing for being a cheating piece of shit lmao. That is the bare minimum of a long term relationship and just life in general, not an apology.
So what he just thought you would say oh honey I forgive you for fucking around on me behind my back, let me just completely ignore it ever happened because you bought some groceries!!!
Absolutelu not. Stop allowing him to treat you like this. He doesn't sound mature enough for an adult relationship or at the very least adult communication. I think you can do better than him. He clearly doesn't care to use his critical thinking skills to even try to make this better but of course cheaters don't have critical thinking skills in the first place so that tracks.
Yeah, and these things illustrate that he’s not mature enough for a women that’s 29yo or even to be in a relationship at all.
OP. Relax. It’s normal to have attractions to people. Keep your drinking to a minimum, or don’t drink at all, and if you feel like you “can’t control” yourself then avoid her the best you can. I know avoiding her all together may be impossible but like I said, avoid her THE BEST YOU CAN. This, like everything, will pass.
Good luck
Girl you told everyone about your relationship to prove why OP is wrong. And i told you why i think you’re wrong! Also, yeah, men dont change and if he was like that with all of his exes u most likely will not be an exception. As if liking other girls pics is some kind of horrible thing anyway, im just saying. Maybe he doesnt like them but i bet he still looks and stares because, news flash, we all do it.
You did all you can. You expressed your concern and preference.
That's the end of what you can do. She doesn't want to change so isn't going to.
Now it's up to you to determine if this is a deal breaker for you or not and either end the relationship or drop the subject.
Nagging and starting arguments about it will help nothing and only damage the relationship so you have to legitimately think about if someone smoking is something you just can't deal with in a relationship or is it something you can put up with.
Also don't do something weird like give an ultimatum. It's not going to make her stop if she doesn't want to it's only going to lead to her walking away or just hiding the fact that she smokes from you as best as possible but either way if it gets to that the relationship is already over cause ultimatums are poison to relationships
Why would that make you insecure? Do you normally feel insecure going in to a relationship if you don't know who your new partner has slept with before you? ?
She is totally willing to do that. I am the one who shut down sexually in response to the fact that we couldn't have penetrative sex. It is my job to get out of avoidance.
We lasted so long together because we have an incredible emotional bond and chemistry.
Being that we don’t on-line together I didn’t think it was an issue I’m not choosing Porn over actual intimacy infact I’m about to inform her that I will stop and no there is no addiction I just can’t be intimate with her sometimes when the occasion arrives because of life ?
Ik you’re being sarcastic but yeah paternity fraud should be a crime, because it’s actually fraud. A man is paying money to raise a child that’s not his when he thought it was (and would only agree to pay for it knowing it was his). So yeah, it’s fraud and coercion and should be a crime, punished with heavy fines.
For 250k at 11% it's worth exploring bankruptcy on the private loans. There has been some success in recent years with this
Yes, it's funny, I was worried about him liking me less when he found out about my hobby (and I suppose that is part of what happened), but I actually like him a lot less for his reaction, too.
Buying groceries and working a job are not apologizing for being a cheating piece of shit lmao. That is the bare minimum of a long term relationship and just life in general, not an apology.
So what he just thought you would say oh honey I forgive you for fucking around on me behind my back, let me just completely ignore it ever happened because you bought some groceries!!!
Absolutelu not. Stop allowing him to treat you like this. He doesn't sound mature enough for an adult relationship or at the very least adult communication. I think you can do better than him. He clearly doesn't care to use his critical thinking skills to even try to make this better but of course cheaters don't have critical thinking skills in the first place so that tracks.